and i think you'd like an honest response. i just don't understand what's so good about canada that made all you people who have high income and high status give up all you have and come here to endure the empty life and hardship. when i came to north america, it was more than 10 years ago. i hadn't even worked one day in china. so i had nothing to lose and as all you know at that time people in china made much less money and life there was much worse than this day and age. you just think after you've lived here for a few years, then you'd become better and you'd earn more if you're back to china again at least. wrong! it's not that simple. to say the least: when you go back, you don't fit anymore, you will be in a dilemma. sigh... poor people...