本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I am not an immigrant and not in China town but UWaterloo campus.
You are willing to go further away from your own background.
But the will is not equal to reality. You are branded with the
Chinese culture. You are willing to emerge yourself into North
American culture. It is not so easy. (Here I assume your English
is average, not the superstart with GRE > 2300 and TOEFL > 660,
and age greater than 25)
Somebody tells me that the age you get accustomed to the North American
culture is the age you arrive in North America times 2. It does make
sense.
You can make North American friends. first as ordinary friends. You will
find they are nice. But it is very hard to have them as your close
friends because you have very few common topic with them. During the part
and gathering, you can hardly join their talking because you can not
understand what they are talking well. So even if those white girls are
nice to you, do not expect much from them.
For Chinese girls, if they can find guys richer than you, they will not
have an eye on you. For white girls, if they can find many guys, including
whites, CBC, blacks, and even those from India, who can communicate with
them more efficiently, they will not put you into prior consideration.
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You are willing to go further away from your own background.
But the will is not equal to reality. You are branded with the
Chinese culture. You are willing to emerge yourself into North
American culture. It is not so easy. (Here I assume your English
is average, not the superstart with GRE > 2300 and TOEFL > 660,
and age greater than 25)
Somebody tells me that the age you get accustomed to the North American
culture is the age you arrive in North America times 2. It does make
sense.
You can make North American friends. first as ordinary friends. You will
find they are nice. But it is very hard to have them as your close
friends because you have very few common topic with them. During the part
and gathering, you can hardly join their talking because you can not
understand what they are talking well. So even if those white girls are
nice to you, do not expect much from them.
For Chinese girls, if they can find guys richer than you, they will not
have an eye on you. For white girls, if they can find many guys, including
whites, CBC, blacks, and even those from India, who can communicate with
them more efficiently, they will not put you into prior consideration.
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