If you only look for soul mate, you may end up waiting forever. And in most scenarios, your true soul mate may not be as compatible in your life as you may expect. Most of us are pretty fragile, we want all those simple things in marriage when you are considerably young – the ease of mind, the stability, and children etc, we construct this marriage with the one you find a lot of great qualities which suit your expectation of life, but this someone may not be your soul mate or the one you really fall for.