there are only a few circumstances in which a man will treat his spouse/partner like this:
1. He is having an affair with someone else. If that is true then you have to decide whether to keep him or dump him.
2. He believes you are having an affair with someone else. You are the only person who knows if this is true.
3. He has always been like this and that is his nature. In that case you better dump him -- the sooner the better.
A marriage should not continue if you cannot even look after each other.
There are marriages that can be saved. And there are also marriages that are hopeless. If the last trace of tenderness and caring is gone your marriage is already dead.
Never trust a man who does not treat his woman decently.