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by leleyou (jiajiale) at 2008.5.16 09:45 (#4454354@0)
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我老公经常来这里抱怨我,我从不想辩解,因为我非常保守,还认为家丑不外扬而且也没时间..
只是我最痛狠说谎,而且在生活中也一样,这也是老公嘲笑我的原因之一,他认为正常的成年人没有不撒谎的.
即于我老公的抱怨我不整理,列下我们两个的日程表.
6am-cook breakfast for 2 kids
6:50-leave home to work
8:00-work
4:30-5:30-leave work(sometimes work overtime)
6:10-7:00-get home, or go grocery sometimes on the way home
6:10pm-7:00-cook dinner, someitmes wash dishes if husband is busy or leave the dishes to tomorrow which my husband complained
7:30-bring kids to playgroud if weather permit
8:30-900pm-have two kids take bath
9:00-9:30-story time and go to bed
day over. the next day repeat same thing. weekend will add to wipe all the cabinet in kitchen,clean stove and all the floor in house, wipe 3bathrooms , do laundry and bring kids to have fun outside sometimes as I don't want to see other kids went some places and my kids never go, also the most important I do enjoy what I am doing
Husband
10:30 pm or 11:00pm-go to work(2 or 4 days a week)
5am-7:30am-get home
if get home at 5am, go to internet until 6:00am or 7:00am, drop kid to school if it is school day, sometimes wash dishes I left the day before,then go sleep
if get home 7:30am, go to internet until 8-8:30 , then drop kid to school if it is school day, then go to bed(becasue my husband has to go to internet right away if he wakes up or gets home from outside), he may have to wake up during his sleepingif kids go to washroom to poo, if it happens.
3:30-4:30-wakp up, go to internet, then pick up my kid from school if it is school day, this is the time he tidys up and cleaning house as well like he talks here.
4-4:30-go to internet until I gets home, then talk to me about what he feeds the kids,then ask me what for dinner then go back to internet as he is not hungry until 10:30-11:00pm.(this excludes sometimes he needs go out to do something, then after he wakes up he will go out , but he will make up the hours he missed on the internet), may come down to basement to play with my kids for a couple of minutes once a month when he wants to please me, or play piano sometimes as my husband is the kind of person with so many interests and fun. sometimes wash dishes.
day over, the next day repeat same thing, if no work on that day, then the time suppose to go to work change to internet. If on weekend, go out if is required by me or same as the weekday schedule.
I told him as long as he is happy, I wouldn't care what he does, but it looks like he is not happy, but I don't know how to help, if any smart sisters can teach me, I would appreciate it.
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by leleyou (jiajiale) at 2008.5.16 09:45 (#4454354@0)
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我老公经常来这里抱怨我,我从不想辩解,因为我非常保守,还认为家丑不外扬而且也没时间..
只是我最痛狠说谎,而且在生活中也一样,这也是老公嘲笑我的原因之一,他认为正常的成年人没有不撒谎的.
即于我老公的抱怨我不整理,列下我们两个的日程表.
6am-cook breakfast for 2 kids
6:50-leave home to work
8:00-work
4:30-5:30-leave work(sometimes work overtime)
6:10-7:00-get home, or go grocery sometimes on the way home
6:10pm-7:00-cook dinner, someitmes wash dishes if husband is busy or leave the dishes to tomorrow which my husband complained
7:30-bring kids to playgroud if weather permit
8:30-900pm-have two kids take bath
9:00-9:30-story time and go to bed
day over. the next day repeat same thing. weekend will add to wipe all the cabinet in kitchen,clean stove and all the floor in house, wipe 3bathrooms , do laundry and bring kids to have fun outside sometimes as I don't want to see other kids went some places and my kids never go, also the most important I do enjoy what I am doing
Husband
10:30 pm or 11:00pm-go to work(2 or 4 days a week)
5am-7:30am-get home
if get home at 5am, go to internet until 6:00am or 7:00am, drop kid to school if it is school day, sometimes wash dishes I left the day before,then go sleep
if get home 7:30am, go to internet until 8-8:30 , then drop kid to school if it is school day, then go to bed(becasue my husband has to go to internet right away if he wakes up or gets home from outside), he may have to wake up during his sleepingif kids go to washroom to poo, if it happens.
3:30-4:30-wakp up, go to internet, then pick up my kid from school if it is school day, this is the time he tidys up and cleaning house as well like he talks here.
4-4:30-go to internet until I gets home, then talk to me about what he feeds the kids,then ask me what for dinner then go back to internet as he is not hungry until 10:30-11:00pm.(this excludes sometimes he needs go out to do something, then after he wakes up he will go out , but he will make up the hours he missed on the internet), may come down to basement to play with my kids for a couple of minutes once a month when he wants to please me, or play piano sometimes as my husband is the kind of person with so many interests and fun. sometimes wash dishes.
day over, the next day repeat same thing, if no work on that day, then the time suppose to go to work change to internet. If on weekend, go out if is required by me or same as the weekday schedule.
I told him as long as he is happy, I wouldn't care what he does, but it looks like he is not happy, but I don't know how to help, if any smart sisters can teach me, I would appreciate it.
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