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  • 枫下拾英 / 心情随笔 / 饺子随笔(三) JABBER, 请回来
    • 呵呵,饺子,越看你越顺眼了 :-)
    • 拍拍手成不成?“如果感到幸福就请拍拍手……啪!啪!”
    • 说的很好啊,俺也相信生活中好人占多数,但都要这样那样的毛病;如果我们能 乐观和开放的看待生活和难题,生活应该是美好的。
      • 是阿,但是问题是有时我父母怕我太过于相信人了,而被骗。
    • Jabber, Please come back, we all need you! :-)
    • So glad to see this article. You said what I want to, 你可以代表我了, and I believe you can also 代表 a lot friends here.
    • 说的好,深有同感!(手都拍得粘一块儿了)
    • Dear Jabber, although I seldom talk, I really miss you very much and have gotten a lot from your posts, please go on. Thanks.
      • me too
    • Very good, come in please.
      Sorry, I cant type Chinese at work. I just want to say a couple of words on fighting back. You know there is a Chinese idiom " tui(4) bi(4) san(1) she(2)". I suggest you apply that principle to deal with those who, in your words, belong to "another kind of people".
      First, assuming people are nice in nature, but not perfect. When the first time they offend you, check the behavior of yourself and if you did nothing wrong just keep silence. They may just do it without knowing what they are doing. The second time it happens, remind them gently, people sometimes need to be reminded. If you can erase any misunderstandings by reasoing with them, isnt that great? But dont give anybody one more chance beyond that, NEVER. Simply fight back, without losing your grace, if the 3rd time they do the same thing to you. Anyway there are some people who are not worthing even a little respect from others. I would simply say those people, though very few, are garbage. Just throw them away.
      • 谢谢HEARTS. 非常赞同你的观点. 文字交流, 有时会有误解, 应该相信别人的用意是好的. 而有些人表达有些"过激", 也不用太当回事. 对于某些特别恶劣的, 满嘴脏话, 最好的手段是, 别跟帖, "抵制". 对于受"打击" 的没有恶意的同志们, 给点鼓励. 其实基本原则是互相尊重
        • 说的好!
    • 说得不错。有时候发帖子都得思考会不会召来...希望大家以一种平和的心态chatting in the syberspace. Sometime manner matters.
    • 嗯呀, 这饺子, 说的好.
    • 俺觉的"饺子"绝对是个nice lady,她言论的动机是好的,产生的效果是好的. 所以,俺认为"文笔,逻辑,,谴词,造句在这都不重要,只要大家能明白,对大家 有帮助,就中"
    • 我刚来这个论坛时,也被人用英语评论为逻辑混乱,我很不高兴。人的逻辑怎么会有计算机好呢?
      • 计算机也有逻辑麽? :-PP
        • 有的,基本的有有逻辑与、或、非。
    • 霹雳帕拉。。。。
      • 油炸热干面喽 ^_^
        • :P
          • 呵呵,记得你油炸过'小鱼儿'...今天,呵呵 :)
            • 油炸兰花豆:D
              • 我..我.....我.....你.你..你...你.......
                • 热干面里加上炸豆豆,美味,美味,不过让谁来吃呢?
                  • 反正不给你吃,哼哼!:)
    • 写得好!
    • 虽然分享经常被误解为炫耀,热情被视为好为人师,但是这些仍旧不能抵消分享带来的喜悦,热情带来的友谊。:D
      • Good points!
      • 喜欢你的观点,欣赏你文章里的思想, PINGLE!希望将来我们有缘一聚(我指的是那个女孩子,现在没分清PINGLE 和BINGLE )
    • 我可能属于“饺子”批评的那一类人吧,不管怎样,我觉得“饺子”给我上了一堂以什么样的想法进入ROLIA的课,
      我相信我以后一定会尊重ROLIA上的每一位大GGJJ,小DDMM,让ROLIA 走进我,走进你,走进每一个人,让我们共同熔入ROLIA的广阔田地里,共同SHARE这里的每一片天空, 用我们的爱心共同筑就ROLIA未来美好的家园。
      • 对不起, 俺在写到"另一种人" 时, 想收笔, 就偷懒了. 声明"那种很极端的人"并不很多, 但伤害力很大. 如果你生来就是心直口快的人, 也没问题. 只是稍微考虑一下作者的感受. 很多人很敏感. 俺只是"皮厚"了. 呵呵, 衷心感谢!
        • 我觉得你写的很到位,每一笔都似利剑,剑剑穿心,让好多人的心在流血,为自己过去的所做所为深深自责和忏悔,真佩服,好厉害!
          • 哇,这么严重啊?"为你我受冷风吹,为你我在流眼泪,为你我被剑穿心,为你我身烧成灰“ :P
            • 你看,连Bingle都表态了。
            • 是为Pingle吧。:)
              • 别这么说人家,你怎么老戳人家的脊梁骨呢!
    • 好奇:为什么不直接发信给对方,而写成公开信的方式?