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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / What's wrong with some Chinese guys in Canada. I am a Chinese lady and found a western guy as boyfriend after I came to Canada. Then some Chinese guys here are really angry with me. -guest:; 2001-7-9 {713} (#125325@0)
    One guy who used to pursue me said "Oh, I do not like you, since you "chong yang mei wai"". Another guy, I believed him very much at first. And one night we went out together. That was the first time I went out with him, and I think that was the last time too. He tried to take advantage of me but failed. Then he is angry, and said "you are beautiful, but can only be enjoyed by western guy, it is unfair."
    Now, even worse. Some of them say bad words behind me. One typical word " Look, she has a western boyfriend, we chinese guys will never select her as girlfriend, or wife, or we chinese guys will never have sexual relationship with her."
    I do not know why such kind of Chinese guy come to Canada!
    • If there is a true love between you and your western boyfriend, just go ahead. Don't care the words of those guys, since they are not your friends indeed. Good Luck! -moonriver(moon river); 2001-7-9 (#125330@0)
      • What a lovely Moon MM, :-) Agree with you! -flying_snow(飞雪浮冰); 2001-7-9 (#125350@0)
        • meat hemp -pazu(InTheSky); 2001-7-9 (#125354@0)
    • I am really confused how many boyfriends you have at the same time? -lazycat(lazycat); 2001-7-9 (#125331@0)
      • only one. I am a Chinese lady, so I know some Chinese guys. You know I hardly have more time to have another boyfriend. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125332@0)
        • Of course, he did not know -xuhp(LOST); 2001-7-9 (#125340@0)
        • I don't understand why you like Western guys. They don't have money, they don't have decent job. Only appearance matters, right? So sad!! -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 (#125345@0)
          • He has enough money. Has degree. Has decent job. He has appearance. Of course the most important thing is I have feeling. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125352@0)
            • So , just go ahead! who care? -guest:I am nobody; 2001-7-9 (#125356@0)
            • If he gets everything, why does he choose you? Because you are one of BEST? I've been in here for many years but still does not understand how they think. Be careful how you deal with the relationship between you and him. -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 (#125364@0)
              • Is this one of your friends? -goodbaby(小宝); 2001-7-9 (#125412@0)
                • BTW, I am so lucky not one of THEM! -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 (#125439@0)
              • first, I can say I am one of the best woman no matter in China or Canada. Second, it is a little bit difficult to accept their concept of the relationship at first. but now i like their concept. I even feel I can understand western people much better. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125428@0)
                • Really? I just don't believe at all. Right now, a lot of girls brag themselves that I am so disappointed after I see them. Both in China and Canada? It sounds so funny to me. Post your profile a little and let us value it, OK? -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 (#125431@0)
                • I am also one of the BEST man in China and Canada. Can we meet? -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125443@0)
        • I see. If the other two Chinese guys are not your BF, don't care about them. I agree with moonriver, true love has nothing to do with race. Maybe those guys only have 酸葡萄效应。 -lazycat(lazycat); 2001-7-9 (#125367@0)
    • Never care about what others said. You live for yourself, not for them. -buaa(buaa); 2001-7-9 (#125353@0)
      • I think so. But sometimes this really annoy me. I knew a lot of western people, they are very friendly to me. But I still want Chinese friends. Now, it seems that some "jing ying" in Chinese circle will kick me out before I come in. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125359@0)
        • I do not thing so! Why should they kick you out?what can they expect from you? -guest:I am nobody; 2001-7-9 (#125363@0)
          • I think some chinese guys here have some ridiculous idea. if they have a canadian girl, it seems that they conquered the whole canada. I do advise some chinese guy dispose of this kind of garbage idea from our traditional Chinese culture. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125378@0)
            • I think most Chinese gentle man do not have that kind of thinking.It is not a part of Chinese culture. where did you get the idea? -guest:I am nobody; 2001-7-9 (#125446@0)
        • I think most Chinese can accept your relationship. Why will they kick you out? Anyway, such kind of things are not scarce. -lazycat(lazycat); 2001-7-9 (#125377@0)
          • yes, they will accept this relationship, but they will go on say bad words behind me. I feel relaxed after I left my previous company in China, after I got rid of the complicated relation between people there. I want to enjoy life and have good mood. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125386@0)
            • You should not put any posts in Rolia anymore if you feel so BADLY, you get everything you want, why do you still want our POOR Chinese guys's sympathy, etc? ... -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 {218} (#125423@0)
              Most of Chinese guys don't want to have the
              wife like you at all. At least, it's true for me. Do you undestand
              the bottom line?? It's the bottom line for most of Chinese guys.
              If you don't like us, just go away.
              • why not change your name into POOR GUY. i do not care them. I only want to help some Canadian Chinese guy open their eyes, accept Canadian concepts. it is ridiculous to adhere this kind of idea while still want to live here. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125430@0)
                • Thanks your suggestion! Unfortunately, my eyes is already opened by three girls like you. I don't want anymore, ^_^ -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 (#125436@0)
                  • POOR GUY, your eyes open, but just like a blind. You are living in 21 century, but you are still wondering in ancient time. You are in a new world, but you can only be proud of your old life. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125447@0)
                    • I am blind? maybe, you will be so surprised if you know how I help one of my female friends to gain the dating experience with western guys. I make the plan, train her how to behave and speak, etc. -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 {294} (#125463@0)
                      I already said, I don't know how these western guys think
                      and behave. They maybe treat you very nice in a few
                      years and dump you like the garbage in your house. Honestly
                      I am blind in this field. I have to like Chinese POOR guys because
                      I am one of them even I don't like them sometimes.
                      • I know some chinese families here. they are not happy families. and they are even worth respecting. -guest:; 2001-7-9 {484} (#125468@0)
                        one family, husband and wife argue all day, only except when one suggest divorce. Husband are proud, " I can easily find a virgin in China". Another family, wife has really good life here. Her husband earn salary for her living, and her "guy friends" spend time for her leisure life. I do not know which kind of family is better, western or chinese.
                        and also, I have my own job. i am independent. when you say woman was disposed like a garbage, don't you think it is ridiculous?
                        • Your English is so poor. It does not like a woman who have a english-spoken boy friend. If you care your relation, stop BS here and spend more than on your english -xuhp(LOST); 2001-7-9 (#125475@0)
                          • thank you sir. english is a tool to show my idea. if you post such kind of message, it seems "ben mo dao zhi", another chinese pinyin. I do not think that is the purpose of rolia. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125479@0)
                            • So, please use Chinese! -xuhp(LOST); 2001-7-9 (#125482@0)
                              • sorry, no chinese version in this computer. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125487@0)
                      • "They maybe treat you very nice in a few years and dump you like the garbage". In a few years? Didn't you mean few days? -guest:haha; 2001-7-9 (#125472@0)
                    • If you prefer western guy, just go ahead and I wish you good luck. Why try to make other people think the same as you do? All the people here are not less or worse than you. -guest:good luck; 2001-7-9 (#125466@0)
                  • hoho...o i c -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125448@0)
              • support you!!!!!! -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125441@0)
              • "At least, it's true for me." why add this sentence. i do not think this can show your confidence. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125450@0)
                • I like to add this sentence because I know that I can ONLY control my destiny but no one else. @-@, sounds OK for you? -coolguy(coolguy); 2001-7-9 (#125465@0)
    • 上大学时，我们宿舍的人跟其它系的女生有些联谊活动，他们系的男生也有类似的言论。 -rollor(Rollor); 2001-7-9 (#125397@0)
    • Please do not send garbage here. If you can not find good Chinese friends, try to find your own problem instead of blaming other. No Body, No Body have the obligation to be your freind. Try to make some real friend bu using your kindness. -xuhp(LOST); 2001-7-9 {56} (#125444@0)
      You are not as good as your claimed" one of the best".
      • 就是，我才不会因为我的朋友找了加拿大男朋友而不跟她好了，除非是她自己的原因。 -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125451@0)
      • Agree -guest:you're right; 2001-7-9 (#125467@0)
      • agree!! -lynx(jane); 2001-7-9 (#125491@0)
      • Yes! Ma'am, please stop sending craps all the way! -found(BeeGee); 2001-7-9 (#125494@0)
        • where are u? -xuhp(LOST); 2001-7-9 (#125507@0)
          • Home. Disturbed by the construction outside :( -found(BeeGee); 2001-7-9 (#125513@0)
      • Rolia is getting wild these days. New ideas are popping up every minute. Must be the weather. -winterblue(winterblue); 2001-7-9 (#125510@0)
    • I just wander how you know what these Chinese "Eye Closed" guys taled about you. Most of the guys here have Canadian experience, and everyone here knows how to live. If you like your life, very nice, just enjoy it; -bloor(不老); 2001-7-9 {125} (#125449@0)
      if anything we here could help, just speak out. But never try to teach anyone.

      btw, 你让我想起了一首歌，关于头发和背影的。
    • Well, I don't care if your boyfriend is white or black. You can always be my friend, but not girlfriend. I've been here long enough to know them well. I don't want to take any risk. -guest:afraid of AIDS; 2001-7-9 (#125456@0)
      • 能具体说说吗？为什么不好呢？ -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125458@0)
        • You didn't see his/her name? afraid of AIDS -bloor(不老); 2001-7-9 (#125462@0)
          • 去年我的一个洋朋友结婚,我们大家给他开了个Bachelor Party,把他以前的女朋友请来, 他们进房来了一次以此到别.我们还叫了两个伴游小姐,真美啊,其中一个还是人妖,大家上下其手一翻,还录了像,最后我们离开.让那小子和两伴游继续玩.洋人就是不一样,开眼啊. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125474@0)
            • 我听说，在北美的Bachelor's party上，找个stripper是惯例。 -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125481@0)
          • 哦，酱紫哦。 -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125476@0)
    • i like to cause flaming. it can construct some ideas. it is fun. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125464@0)
    • chong yang mei wai -guest:guest; 2001-7-9 (#125478@0)
    • What happened to her sound REALLY bizarre. Either she got the sort of Narcissism feeling based on the no-good physical or mental attributes, or she simply just can not make good friends. Her quotations seem disgusting (sorry) and pretending. -found(BeeGee); 2001-7-9 {19} (#125486@0)
      Stop acting please!
      • I decide to quit. I would like to construct some ideas, not personal assaulting like this. -guest:; 2001-7-9 (#125492@0)
        • That's a good idea to you! Next time be sure to log on in with an ID, so I'll be knowing whom I am "attacking" to. Here's wishing you all the luck on your new relationship. And I guess all the consultants are awaiting here for your returning. -found(BeeGee); 2001-7-9 (#125503@0)
    • Well, I'll send you best wishes and respect if your relationship are marriage-oriented instead of just playing around. But I just cannot understand why you still hang out with your male Chinese friend at night? To prove your attraction? ^_^ -holly(只羡厨师不羡仙); 2001-7-9 (#125499@0)
      • 呵呵，你改了你的帖子^_* -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125505@0)
        • ：) I saw it! 怎么改帖子？ -found(BeeGee); 2001-7-9 (#125506@0)
          • 点上面的modify就可以拉 ，还可以删自己的帖子，用delete,可是如果有人跟贴就删不了。 -pandora(Sarah); 2001-7-9 (#125517@0)
            • 谢谢，无数！ -found(BeeGee); 2001-7-9 (#125519@0)
    • 快进热点吧，越说越没意思了。我听道过人们在背后议论找白人男友女孩，也在rolia上看到帖子‘如何泡洋妞’，反正就是中华男儿泡洋妞是值得赞许的，华妞泡洋人就最好别在网上嚷嚷，免得有人心烦 -rock_jack(Rock Jack); 2001-7-9 (#125529@0)
      • 此言有误。谁也没拦着她泡洋男。泡洋男我们没有意见，骂中国男人就不好了叭。 -xuhp(LOST); 2001-7-9 (#125542@0)
    • 这种话题准挨砸, 而且砸人的都是一拨人, 能理解你的也是一拨人, 嘿嘿, 有意思 -dropoutinmiami(东北的饺子); 2001-7-9 (#125571@0)
      • 说话不痛不恙，和稀泥的也总是一小撮人。 -guest:有意思; 2001-7-9 (#125644@0)
    • JJMM: Go ahead, never mind those who are jealous and narrowminded. However, take caution while you date with western guy. -alan01(alan01); 2001-7-9 (#125814@0)
      • agree:) -goodbaby(小宝); 2001-7-9 (#125821@0)
    • 真搞不懂你，既然已经有男朋友了，为什么还为别人不愿意把你当女朋友甚至和你发生关系而生气。似乎只想找一种感觉，我们的男同胞都追你，而你却找了老外，自我感觉很良好，哈哈 -wander2001(wander); 2001-7-9 (#125830@0)
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