it is not"我认为". The truth is 第一代移民多数不适合同洋人联姻
-guest:It is fact;
2000-12-4(#17096@0)
It Depends
-sanyatou(Jimi);
2001-3-12{342}(#32394@0)
It depends on you, actualy I have met a lady who is from western contry, and married a Chinese Husband, they love each other and live together, even though the wife speak poor Manadarin(PU Tong Hua), the husband speak poor English, they have to communicate with each other in Body Language or with the help of dictionary.
For your reference.
you just talk about 1% chance
-guest:everthing depends;
2001-3-12(#32434@0)
hi, 4:
Obviously, you're interested in it and really want to try. So go ahead and don't be afraid....
Good Luck!
-guest:jesus;
2000-12-6(#17396@0)
and don't forget to come back and tell us your experience.... ^^
-jesus(jesus);
2000-12-22(#19112@0)
thanks anyway, i will try it. who knows if i can meet my half part ;>>
-coin(心情不错);
2000-12-25(#19290@0)
not really. Don't imagine it, try to make some local white friends and ask them what their opinions are.
-guest:;
2000-12-4(#17136@0)
I have local western friends. We talk a lot, and I can find similarities. However, the diffirences are more significient. As friends, it's good to know other people, while as couples, we'd rather have someone that can really share our feelings.
-zjoy(Joy);
2000-12-5(#17285@0)
It applies to all cultures and religions too.
remember the word Wei-Cheng was originated from French.
-guest:;
2000-12-4(#17137@0)
hi, the Guest who tell others not to imagine: Will you please indicate your "name". I'm a guest, too. But i have a name. That'll be easier for the rest of us to see who's talking about what ...
Thanks
-guest:jesus;
2000-12-6(#17397@0)
I just know one real story
-guest:jesus;
2000-12-6{506}(#17404@0)
hi,
I don't know how many happy stories you have encountered. I just know one real story of a very close friend of mine. A first-generation Chinese lady who was a movie star married an American guy. They divorced after about 2 years.
The lady considers the marriage a tragedy and regrets very much. Now it's not as easy as before for her to find a suitable mate and she has to bring down her criteria.
I'm not against interracial marriages. But it's definitely not for first-generation immigrants.
maybe she's either too naive or too sophisticated.
-guest:;
2000-12-6(#17427@0)
观念问题乎,实际问题乎?
-coin(4?);
2000-12-4{334}(#17154@0)
to speak it frankly, 既然千里迢迢的投奔西方世界,不应该只是看看它的山,喝喝它的水,吸吸它的空气,挣挣它的dollar. 人是万物之灵,只有了解了人,你才会真正的投入进一种境界或情绪或####,
总之,如果还有选择的权利,何苦总盯着一群人? 若已经没有选择的权利了, well, 就要多多批判这种观点,-------太资产阶级自由化了吗!还要不要三讲了?
哈哈, 嗨嗨,得罪得罪.
it's nothing really about freedom. you will see there's no difference between a traditional western family and Chinese family. hehe, u still have to deal with all relatives and family issues.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17231@0)
Top 10 reasons to marry a Lao Wai
-guest:just kidding;
2001-3-13{618}(#32855@0)
10. It's like to have an English teacher, for free;
9. Can move into high standard apartment immidiately;
8. Have opportunity to taste all kinds of good food in Toronto;
7. Never worry about if I am good looking or not;
6. Never worry about too old to find a boyfriend;
5. Have opportunity to understand other cultures;
4. Get financial support easily;
3. Romantic feeling to remember when getting old (better than nothing);
2. Great sex;
and Number One:
1. I try hard to marry a white guy even in China where there is few, why should I marry a Chinese man when there are tons of white guys here in Canada?
everybody has to be responsible for his or her decision. language barrier is nothing for younger people.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17230@0)
It is not just language barrier! e.g you like port and his like beef. You like tea he like coffee
-guest:too many difference;
2000-12-5(#17237@0)
geez, every person is totally different from others. so by your logic, nothing can be tolerated or
consolidated between two individuals? don't imagine things you don't know.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17267@0)
the race doesn't make that much difference, the personality does.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17268@0)
the more the difference race the more this kind of thing
-guest:not easy;
2000-12-5(#17269@0)
如人饮水冷暖自知。I don't think it makes any sense if it's nothing of our own experience.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17273@0)
If you find it is hard to find a people in your own race which you kwon so well, can you imagine you can get along well with a people from another race?
-guest:dreaming;
2000-12-5(#17282@0)
so, why bother getting so much troubles to both families? and maybe you are more unacceptable to the other side, haha.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17292@0)
甲之肉乙之毒. If not happy, why pushing both sides( regardless of race, age, native places, family background.) so hard to be
together. that DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE AT ALL. I don't think most people r
so stupid to make their lives miserable.
-guest:;
2000-12-5{36}(#17270@0)
You don't really know love, do you?
I like all food, hehe.
-guest:;
2000-12-5(#17274@0)
what a good idea? please try it and come back to tell us the story.
-jesus(jesus);
2000-12-6(#17405@0)
never try this.
-wjiang(wjiang);
2000-12-7{968}(#17517@0)
you can easily see a LaoWai walk with a chinese young woman in the
street. But you never see them with any older chinese woman. why?
They only want to taste chinese woman like chinese food. If you
want long term relationship, go for chinese. LaoWai will get rid of
you sooner or later.
I have been in Canada for less than 3 years, but I have encountered
many sad stories. All are chinese girls ...ed by LaoWai and then
kicked out. The sadness of all stories is: Those girls look down
her chinese fellow man a lot. Everything her LaoWai does is good
and decent. Everything her chinese fellow man does is shame and
disgust.
They loved LaoWai but unfortunately, LaoWai never love them. Well,
if you think you can try LaoWai like try a meal of western food,
go ahead. But if you are looking for a long term relationship,
come back and try to love your chinese fellow man.
Sorry for this...but two of my best female friends were already
victims.
so IMHO it's still the problem of the victim you talked out. because they didn't know who they were and what they were doing. And they even had no idea if the other parties love themselves or not. It's sad, and happens within same race too.
-guest:;
2000-12-7(#17520@0)
The problem is you can not observe the mineral change of other race and adjust your own behaviour.
-guest:good luck;
2000-12-7(#17526@0)
sorry what's mineral change?
-guest:;
2000-12-7(#17530@0)
what is "IMHO" ?
-wjiang(wjiang);
2000-12-7(#17528@0)
give me a break;) you do think Chinese have higher 道德水准? definitely wrong. we've learned how to pretend to ignore some embarassing behaviour by our Chinese people here.
-guest:;
2000-12-10(#17767@0)
Ha,ha.. How do you know those girls are young and pretty?
-jesus(jesus);
2000-12-11(#17891@0)
oh, maybe they are ugly and old. Anyway, everything is undefinitly for those girls or ladies. As long as there is love between man and woman, everything will be ok. Am I right?
-guest:;
2000-12-12(#17957@0)
Many of those girls are just not pretty and young. The 老外 those ladies are with are mostly losers of the society. Those 老外 have no chance at anywhere else, and take those Chinese ladies as easy picks and cheap sex toys.
My pity ...
-jesus(jesus);
2000-12-12(#17980@0)
1 大多洋 MM 不会太计较你有没有绿卡，钱，HOUSE，BMW 车。
2 洋 MM 数量多，资源丰富，可以东方不亮西方亮。
3 脸形和身段与中国 MM 比有 3D 对 2D 的优势。(恕此言失礼，不
过依稀记得好多中国
MM 一吹嘘起自己的相貌动辄就说有白人追)
4 即使吹了，也全当是上了一学期的英文口语课。
5 与几个中国 GG 抢一个女同胞伤了和气，或者某些人禁不住勾引别
人老婆相比，追洋
MM 符合“兔子不吃窝边草”的古训。
Yep, just try! Do you forget the famous story of smart horses?Only trying ,you can know whether you can or not?Good luck
-whitetiger(whitetiger);
2000-12-10(#17781@0)
What is the story?
-psv1988(timex);
2000-12-10{2}(#17815@0)
rt
Of course. It is worth trying. Too few available Chinese women
-psv1988(timex);
2000-12-10{48}(#17816@0)
the person who called didn't think you're a Chinese doesn't mean you speak English like a native.
-guest:yeah;
2001-3-22{173}(#35982@0)
Maybe the caller thinks you're Indian. Don't fool yourself ! You can never sound like a native. Maybe only youself have this food feeling for your English. Good luck! ^_*