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  • 枫下拾英 / 心情随笔 / 2篇我认为很典型的文章,转自is4u.net
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
    我发誓,我要为加拿大贡献我的青春

    开心的人, August 23, 2000 at 15:13:28
    看法我是一个新移民,来到多伦多三个月就找到了6.8万的计算机的工作,还不包括一些福利.在这里我可以发挥自己的才能,劳动也有报酬,我很高兴
    在中国,我结婚的时候,可怜我的妻子和我一起住在集体宿舍半年,几次找领导,都说老同志都没有解决,还说大家都是这样过来的,自己要搞点成果,困难重重,不踩你已经是很好了.可是我知道头头是把单位的房子偷偷的出租出去搞钱.还有就是搞文凭主义,我是本科,可是我的工作一点也不比研究生差,可是每此提拔,都没有我的份.不是我爱当官.我希望我的价值有肯定.我处处受压,此处不留爷,他乡有去处.
    很庆幸来到加拿大,我愿意为它贡献自己的青春和才智.然他更强盛,我已经买好日本车了,打算明年看看是否可以买房子,在中国,这些事情都是下辈子的事情.
    当然,我自己只是一个小百姓,我很满足了.我知道国内有一些人在国内日子很好,我不能和他们比,因为他们有关系,有权力,可以走后门,可以臭摆谱.很庆幸加拿大给他们提供了一个重新认识自己的地方.在加拿大他们,请原谅我不客气的说,这个世界变了,你们这
    们这群垃圾!

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    我年薪至少是你的两倍半,公司免费给我租房,给我买车。可你呆久就知道了,这不是中国人的地盘。西方的文化,其实很肤浅虚伪,虽然很实际

    一个”加籍“华人, November 26, 2000 at 05:27:35
    等你完全了解这里,你就会有我现在这样的落寞感了。
    什么时候也不要忘记自己的国家。好象当年犹太人,
    没了自己国家,虽然在美国混得很好,但照样受人排挤。
    记得当年我刚在美国毕业的时候,意气纷发, 我那
    自己开公司的姐姐,跟我说了一句话:”如果你自己的
    祖国不强,不管你多利害,也总是孤独和软弱的“。
    你可以把国内说的很不好,可能国内确实也不好,但不要忘记你
    永远是个中国人, 虽然你拿到加拿大国籍, 虽然你再成功,
    加拿大人也不会认为你是一个真正的canadian. 在他们的潜意识中
    加拿大的骄傲并不属于你。我们这些移民的下一代,可能是属于
    加拿大,但是我们,生在中国这片土地,就给我们
    打上了终身烙印,我们是中国人。 人生就是这么沉重。
    我并不是说不该忘记共产党,我也是反对社会主义的。
    我说的中国,是从纯粹的民族意义上来讲。等你在北美呆上7,8年,
    再回到中国,你一定会找到那种魂牵梦绕的根的感觉。
    我在北美这块土地,抛下了青春,爱情和婚姻。现在转头一看
    才发现真正能让我内心幸福的,是太平洋对岸那片象雄鸡一样的
    土地。

    补充一下,其实北美社会的精髓,就是提倡一个人要为自己自豪,以勇气来面对自己。 改过不好的,吸取好的。我在公司从来对人说我是chinese而且我要回china, 一旦我可以放手公司的这些事情。我想

    我年薪至少是你的两倍半,公司免费给我租房,给我买车。可你呆久就知道了,这不是中国人的地盘。西方的文化,其实很肤浅虚伪,虽然很实际 一个”加籍“华人November 26, 2000 at 05:27:35

    这其实是为什么公司的加拿大人都尊敬我,愿意听我的指挥的原因。
    因为他们看到了一个真正的中国人,撕下虚荣的面具。
    不再为自己的出生为耻。 真实,平静的面对自己,才
    是做人的准则。 下面有人说,要在心里,法律上做
    加拿大人,而不是加拿大的中国人。你想象一下
    如果你的加拿大同事,听到你这么说,他们会怎么看你?
    我是可以想象得到,他们一定会从内心非常敝视和厌恶你。
    因为我现在就是这样看你的。
    来到北美多年,英文的文学作品也看了很多,语言能力自信跟
    本地人相差不远。 虽然也为“苹果树” 和“茵梦湖”类的
    感动过。但谁又能写出“夜来悠梦忽还乡,小玄窗,正梳妆,
    相对无言,唯有泪千行“的词呢?更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • The latter hit the point .I can't agree with more. No matter where we are, we Chinese is alaways Chinese.
      The latter hit the point .I can't agree with more.
      No matter where we are, we Chinese is alaways Chinese. Going abroad is just a tool or instrument to make a better life for ourself . I have a dreaem that China someday be the NO.1--Tang001--盛唐


      Thanks yellow.

      btw, it's realy hard to access to is4u from china, though i 'm a administrator with 8M broadband linking to the internet
      • 感动
        虽然我只是一个刚有移民想法的人,但看了帖子后,觉得最感动的就是那句——I have a dream that China someday be the NO.1.
      • So do I , I have never accessed to is4u from both office and my home computers in China.I am wondering that so much.
    • Be proud of being a Chinese, Be proud of being a Canadian. There is no confliction between them.
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛At least the law says discriminations against race, age, gender etc. are
      prohibited. You select Canada as your new home, permanently or temporarily,
      you have the rights to be equal to other members in this land and (I think)
      you have no reason to say it's not my home. It is true that the reality is
      not always as good as what stated in the great legal documents. But at
      least you are eititled to the rights you deserve. I went to the recent
      fedaral vote, not because I thought my single vote would decide the winner,
      but because it is my right. Unfortunately, my candidate lost.

      This country allow people to have a say on its policies. So why not unite
      together, form a force, and fight for the correctness in this new land.
      We Chinese new immigrants can be, and should be a force in the society,
      to build a better Canada for all of us, for people from China, from
      Africa, from Europe. Merge into the society, be a part of it.

      Talking about "merge", I would say, it is not about how fluent your
      English is, what you dress, where you live or how many "Canadian",
      "American" friends you have, its how you view yourself in the society.
      Do you participate in Voluntary social activities, do you care what
      happen in your community, do you put forward your opinion and do anything
      to influence it.

      There is a different view on the Jew's experience - what if they have
      much stronger political power in the countries they live? How Isarel can
      survive while surrounded by hostile Arabian countries? No one will
      neglect the US's support backed by the Jewish influencing groups in the
      US political circle.

      We need not to be ashamed of being Chinese, nor should we feel superior
      than people of other ethnic backgrounds. No one has the right to look
      down upon you since you are not saying "I will go back to China." Only
      the aboriginals can say Canada is their native land, all other immigrants
      are equal in this sense.

      Why separate yourself from Canada? Does it do good to anyone/any country
      by saying "I just hold Canadian citizenship, I don't want really to be
      a 'Canadian'", especially when there is no conflict of interest between
      the two nations. Even if some day, because of some stupid politician's
      stupid decision, being a Canadian citizen, you have to right to express
      your will and by uniting other good people, you will have the chance to
      influence government decisions. Is this better than only saying "I'm a
      Chinese, I will go home some day" ? Many Chinese Canadians love our
      motherland no less than anyone else on this forum. I still remember the
      organizers of the Protest Agains US/NATO bombing of Chinese Ambassy in
      Yogoslovakia are Cantonese-speaking "old" immigrants.

      I think we Chinese in Canada should aim high in the society, more than
      just make a better life, we need to consider how to become a power in
      the society and catch our future in our own hands.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
      • 俺的一点看法
        首先,我想说我爱我的亲人,爱我的家乡,喜欢爱好和平、性格温和、助人为乐的人。
        说说真实的想法,你内心深处难道没有歧视过穿了一身脏兮兮衣服站在你身边的民工?
        歧视与被歧视是很普遍很正常的。被歧视者只要自强自立,通过努力
        缩小与别人的差距,使自己变的优秀起来,就会赢得别人的尊敬。
        至于文化方面的差异,其实就是萝卜白菜的问题,就看你从小吃什么长大的啦。
        • 难道你觉得自己站在加拿大人面前象一个脏兮兮的民工吗? 为什么先把自己摆在被歧视的地位。首先你要尊重自己人家才会尊重你。
          • hehe, the truth is typical Canadian doesn't discriminate 脏兮兮的民工. everybody is doing his or her own job, right? as long as you make your own living, you do deserve respect and dignity.
          • 可能我没表达清楚。我是说歧视是很普遍的人类社会现象,就是你新到一个工作单位,老员工还指使你呢。怎么办呢?只有努力工作,做出出色的成绩,别人自然会认可你,进而尊敬你了。
          • per只是打个比方嘛。其实当一个人在瞧不起身边的”民工”的时候,那个民工可能心里也在说,瞧瞧这个人,穿得人模鬼样的,可是他还没有我快乐。——余非鱼安知鱼之乐耶?
            享受属于自己的每一份哪怕最简单的快乐吧。比如:红烧肉,美美的一觉。。。然后可以想一想,每个人每个生命都是平等的。如果每个人都这样做……
            • 呵呵,笨笨鱼,这几天跑哪冬眠去啦? 也不去聊天室了,大家都想念你。
              • per,are you free this weekend? do you remember our invitation?
                • hehe,thank you very much.If I am free I will call you.
          • 你要看得起自己,不卑不亢,无论在那儿,对何人都是这样。
    • 或许只有放眼做个世界人,才有包容的心胸融合两方的文化。
      中国永远是个令人眷恋的地方,无论走到哪里。但是,或许从你离开家乡,在外地读书,或者工作,一步步的,更深的品尝外文化的冲击。其本质上是一样的。这种本土文化的分离,让我在踏上北美的土地前,就已经感伤不已。但我会让西人认识、欣赏真正的中国人,理解比浅薄的西方文化深刻的多的中国文化。
      各种各样的人因为种种原因会离开故土,但也带来了文化的交流,既然是自由人,就应该有
      选择生活方式的权利。可以有不同的尝试。想一想,写出这样脍炙人口的诗句的人,现在还有多少?
      • YEAH! Be proud of yourself. Honor others. Cherish those good old days and look forward to a better future! You cant be happier..
    • i don't understand why some chinese may forget who is his/her mother?
      i think one person never forget his/her mother and homeland, that's basic virtue. I hope we will have a bright and wealthy life in Canada, but we sould not forget who we are and where we are from, that's our roof......I never forget all these in my lifetime, although it is poor and in chaos. I go abroad just for my ideal to strengthen China, of couse as well as including myself.
    • 第二篇非常好,感谢yellow的转载!
    • 中国的文字真的非常美,无法想象没有它的日子,也许真的是生死两茫茫了。
      • 我以为在唐宋时期已经达到她的极致(好象国家强盛一样),将来一定带上唐诗宋词再走。
    • I read the article again. I found the first guy is very low....
      in his human figure. He took his acquizition of a JAPANESE car as a proud.
      "很庆幸来到加拿大,我愿意为它贡献自己的青春和才智.然他更强盛,我已经买好日本车
      了,打算明年看看是否可以买房子,在中国,这些事情都是下辈子的事情. "
      I think the guy is deserved to be treated like that in China and he will be
      treated the same in Canada again. People like that will not succeed in anywhere.
      He doesn't have what we called Gu2 Qi4. A Chinese driving a Japanese car is,
      if not sad, definetely not a proud. He talks too much bad of China, which is
      not fair.

      "在中国,我结婚的时候,可怜我的妻子和我一起住在集体宿舍半年,几次找领导,都说老同
      志都没有解决.." Yes, it is not good. But it is not valid to use that as an evident
      that Canada is better than china in this respect. Who gives you a free place
      to live in Canada? Is that a people who gives you a small place is worse than
      a people who gives you nothing?

      I feel sorry for him. Poor guy.