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  • 枫下拾英 / 心情随笔 / 最近几天,似乎对于批评和赞扬谈论得态度了,甚至搬出了ROLIA和北电,不免有点小题大作。
    我真的不知道众位ROLIA的大侠们究竟想让ROLIA成为怎么样的一个网站,是世外桃源吗?为什么有一些批评就不行,就说人家是极尽挖苦讽刺。你们的言论又是如何呢?然后就群起而痛斥那些人。
    大千世界,不会有任何两个人的想法相同,哪怕是长的一模一样。也不会有任何一个人是没有缺点的。世界正是因为这样而变的丰富多采。所以,
    1,不要强求别人和你想法一样,包括你的爱人,给别人一些自由空间
    2,不要因为一两个人的所为,就认为所有人都这样。坏人总是有的,哪儿都不例外。比如激昂说的那些幸灾乐祸的人
    3,适当的批评是有好处的,经常反省一下自己
    • 其实承认与否这反映了国人的整体平均素质水平. 喜欢批评攻击别人. EGG第一美国之行写下两段文字至于被讥笑傻帽吗? 过去多少帖子骂人蠢笨. 就这样的素质一代两代改不过来
      • 承认。
      • 又上纲上线!他能写出很烂的文章,别人就有权力表达内心的感受。以前你看电影没骂过谁谁演的不好?情节如何如何差?受众难道只有听和夸他的权力,没有批评的权力?接受批评怎么这么难?
        • Everyone has the right to criticize. However, please only post your criticism with POLITENESS and RESPECT to others.
          Please treate other visitors on rolia.com as your good friends. You always be polite and respect to your friends, right? You receive criticism from your friends, and you expect the words come sincerely, not personal attacking, no dirty words, right?

          The meaning of words may be correct and valuable, but if you choose a bad way to express it, I'm sure the real meaning should not get through. People tend to accept ideas coming in good manner.
          • 请教一下斑竹,你是否能保证删贴的公正性?你能保证没有任何私人感情搀杂在里面?到底什么是你所谓的politeness
            • Please send me your email address.
              I do not discuss such topic in this forum publicly. Thanks.
              • why?This is a open topic and I believe many people want to know.
            • of course he can not, but i am sure he will try his best, you have to follow the rules, if those rules are not properly let 's discuss that, before any change been made, follow the rules is a only choose!
              • I always and of course will obey the rules, just curious about it.