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枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / Does anyone know what ‘never say sorry’ means?
-aboat(aboat);
2001-9-27{354}(#211932@0)
I heard people say ‘never say sorry’ recently. I nodded when I heard it as if it is common sense. But when I think it over, I don’t know why. A person should say sorry when he/she feels sorry, and apologizes when needed. What's wrong with that?
Does it come from a movie or something like ‘love never needs to say sorry’? Who can give me a hint?
become mature, don't make (same) mistake again. (My best guess)
-alan01(alan01);
2001-9-28(#212080@0)
Thank you for your response. Is it that, seen from the listener’s point of view, saying sorry is an excuse, which does little good to the listener?
-aboat(aboat);
2001-9-28{223}(#212881@0)
Seeing deep inside yourself, when you say sorry, do you find that actually you haven’t tried your best not to let whatever the situation happen? Saying sorry doesn’t do any good to the listener, but sounds like an excuse.