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枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 不知道已婚的DX找爱人是找凑合过日子的还是找心爱的人？？？@_@ -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-17 (#227733@0)

做个民意调查，西西:-> -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-17 (#227741@0)

两样都要的！你是水火上的“蚂蚁”吗？ -wendywang168(wendy); 2001-10-17 (#227757@0)
最好是你爱的和爱你的，两全其美。人就着一辈子，还要凑合着过，太委屈自己了。 -ca010406(HeyJude); 2001-10-17 (#227759@0)
俗语常言道的却好：妻不如妾，妾不如婢，婢不如偷，偷不如偷不着。 -tytang(TY); 2001-10-17 (#227801@0)

你什么时候过来？ -qingzhou(轻舟); 2001-10-18 (#227855@0)
呵呵，来句“老话”来给你参考：找个爱你的人做配偶，找个你爱的人做情人。:)) -dalianmao(dalianmao); 2001-10-18 (#227887@0)

别教坏了antMM, 如果大家都这么想,这世界可怎么办,全是单相思 -happy_4_7(人参果); 2001-10-18 (#227947@0)

放心,不是人人都这么聪明的。:P -dalianmao(dalianmao); 2001-10-18 (#227964@0)

有道理,太聪明也不好,有时聪明反被聪明误 -happy_4_7(人参果); 2001-10-18 (#227972@0)

good idea! -icegirl(ice); 2001-10-18 (#228060@0)

原来你是女的。 -pocket(pocket); 2001-10-18 (#227970@0)

你以为她是男蚂蚁吗? -happy_4_7(人参果); 2001-10-18 (#227971@0)

呵呵，考考你们：蚂蚁有性别吗？:P -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-18 (#227981@0)

你想告诉我们ANTMM雌雄同体吗？ -pocket(pocket); 2001-10-18 (#227987@0)

:O 人妖,....joking la :D -happy_4_7(人参果); 2001-10-18 (#227988@0)

:D:D:D 谁让你们把蚂蚁和人等同了呢？好本:P -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-18 (#227989@0)

当然有了。对一般的蚂蚁而言，男的都是工蚁，又瘦又小，专负责干活儿，也就是咱们平常看见的蚂蚁。很多工蚁侍候一只AntMM，这只母蚁又大又胖，每天的任务除了吃就是生小蚂蚁。这些都是小学的《自然》课本上教的，我记的没错儿吧。 -dnc(Danny); 2001-10-18 (#227991@0)

错错错，大错特错。工蚁是母的，只是失去了生育能力。公蚂蚁在蚂蚁王国中是珍稀动物。:-) -tigerking2000(爱游泳的虎); 2001-10-18 (#227994@0)
蛋泥DX,我觉得你说的怎么象蜜蜂,:D -happy_4_7(人参果); 2001-10-18 (#228589@0)

mm是男的吗？ -tigerking2000(爱游泳的虎); 2001-10-18 (#227979@0)

两样都要！找个心爱的人才能结婚，找个过日子的才能将日子过下去而且越过越好，二者缺一不可！ -mike2000(风筝); 2001-10-18 (#228272@0)
如果对感情不苛求，找一个可以凑合的人，然后，告诉自己他是你的伴侣，你们要相依为命的生活，看他的眼睛，冲他笑，去爱他，体会自己幸福的感觉。 -lilyba(lily); 2001-10-18 (#228281@0)

Only love or not love, what is "可以凑合"? If don't love him, how can " 看他的眼睛，冲他笑，去爱他..." Sigh, horrible to me -wander2001(wander); 2001-10-18 (#228338@0)

埃是可以培养的，只要刚开始看着还行。 -lilyba(lily); 2001-10-18 (#228346@0)

lilyba, I agree with you. I always think my parents love each other very much. But few years ago, my mom told me when she just married my dad, she didn't think she love him very much. -cocotea(可可茶); 2001-10-18 (#228351@0)

my parents have very happy life although they only met once before they got married. and my mom told me she was so shy, she even did not take a look at my father. but now life is not simple, feeling is complicated. -lilyba(lily); 2001-10-18 {81} (#228355@0)
it is hard to say which is better. i just want to find the better way for myself.

也许有人可以,但至少对我来说爱不是培养出来. -judy3721(judy3721); 2001-10-18 (#228353@0)

If you found the one whom you love, go ahead until you get him/her. If you haven't or couldn't find one, start to learn to love the one who loves you. -cocotea(可可茶); 2001-10-18 (#228362@0)

I guess it's easier for girls to learn to love a non-ideal lover. Guys alway love the one which he think ideal. hehe... -cocotea(可可茶); 2001-10-18 (#228347@0)

I don't think so. Guys are more like animals, they care physical desire more than feeling, but girls, if no love...cannot imagine -wander2001(wander); 2001-10-18 (#228373@0)

if you call that physical desire as love...let's say, -cocotea(可可茶); 2001-10-18 {189} (#228383@0)
a girl marry a normal guy without love, 40 years later, she might loves him. A guy marry a normal girl without love, 40 years later, he might appreciate her, but still doesn't love her. :P

Agree... and maybe you will really love him/her at last. :P -cocotea(可可茶); 2001-10-18 (#228344@0)

蚂蚁 mm 调查这干啥？想......？ -lemondy(麋鹿); 2001-10-18 (#228292@0)

取经啊，准备去相亲:PP -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-18 (#228630@0)

嘿嘿........ -tigerking2000(爱游泳的虎); 2001-10-18 (#228645@0)

爱轻舟的狼，你傻笑啥？？？:-> -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-18 (#228682@0)

自己能量大就找心爱的人；能量小就找个女人凑合。不是不想找心爱的人，而是心爱的人不一定跟你，如果能量小。 -laoxi(Laoxi); 2001-10-18 (#228310@0)

how about your power? ^_^ -icegirl(ice); 2001-10-18 (#228354@0)

能量广义理解就是底气 / 能力 / 能耐。我觉得好多女人都看重男人的身外之物，所以能量大的男人选择女人的空间较大。 -laoxi(Laoxi); 2001-10-19 (#229167@0)

你太聪明了吧，干嘛指东答西呢？;-) -icegirl(ice); 2001-10-19 (#229448@0)

我正在找我爱的人。如果实在找不到，至少也得和爱我的人结昏，西西。 -dragon2001(飞龙); 2001-10-18 (#228594@0)

我在问结过婚的DX也~~~~~ 瞎凑什么热闹 -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-18 (#228627@0)

一定得找一个他唉你，你也唉他的人。凑合过日子？满大街都是。 -jzwang(hello); 2001-10-18 (#228638@0)

难道你们的要求都是这么高的？？？请教你们是怎么找到你们的爱人的？？好难的也@_@ -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-18 (#228642@0)

这可说来话长了，哪能几句就说明白的。简单的说：打开心扉，以诚相待，相信别人，相信自己。 -jzwang(hello); 2001-10-18 (#228655@0)

噢，你心扉的窗儿开了几度。：) -qingzhou(轻舟); 2001-10-18 (#228669@0)

180度。嘿嘿。 -jzwang(hello); 2001-10-18 (#228757@0)

半圆？半遮半掩欲说还休？一半儿圈圈寻寻觅觅另一半圈圈儿？呵呵：) -qingzhou(轻舟); 2001-10-19 (#229622@0)

绕口令?，我不会欲说又停，是知无不言，言无不尽。 -jzwang(hello); 2001-10-19 (#229933@0)
360度嘛，等于什么也没开。 -laoxi(Laoxi); 2001-10-19 (#229991@0)

先自我评估一下自己处于什么状态中，橄榄球？篮球？足球？然后再决定找爱人是找凑合过日子的还是找心爱的人，嘿嘿。 -dragon2001(飞龙); 2001-10-18 (#228784@0)

总觉得你的问题好别扭，已结婚的还找什么呀？ -guest-toronto(toronto); 2001-10-18 (#228774@0)

我的意思就是问已经结婚DX找的是啥样的人呀~ 过去式呀~~~~~~~~~ -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-19 (#229060@0)

已结婚了还敢说真话吗？ -guest-toronto(toronto); 2001-10-19 (#229715@0)

本人（已婚），找的是爱我的人，当然也是我爱的人，只不过LG好像爱得程度深。：） -beijing-dj(beijing-dj); 2001-10-19 (#228962@0)

幸福啊 -happy_4_7(人参果); 2001-10-19 (#228979@0)

婚姻想一场交易(砖头有请) -outsider(outsider); 2001-10-19 (#229736@0)

精辟！ -icegirl(ice); 2001-10-19 (#229748@0)
也是一份合同。只有长期短期之分。 -laoxi(Laoxi); 2001-10-19 (#229988@0)
sex & money的交易？？？@@ -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-19 (#230054@0)

JPJP, PFPF -lemondy(麋鹿（不怕老虎）); 2001-10-19 (#230056@0)

are you really dont dare tiger? -icegirl(ice); 2001-10-19 (#230244@0)

不信他不怕雌老虎 :-> -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-20 (#230399@0)

一看你这人就不可信，一下还在谈感情一下堕落到财色交易。加拿大男人不容易啊。 -outsider(outsider); 2001-10-19 (#230097@0)

西西，爱谁谁~ -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-19 (#230135@0)

其实都一样，问题是互相之间都沟通，就象人都手，互相合作，但是也有互相伤害的时候。。。 -mmx(ddmmx); 2001-10-19 (#230039@0)

说的这么轻描淡写，难道和沟通的来的都可以结婚？？？@_@ 太多选择了点.......... -antmm(antmm); 2001-10-19 (#230051@0)

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