lilyba, I agree with you. I always think my parents love each other very much. But few years ago, my mom told me when she just married my dad, she didn't think she love him very much.
-cocotea(可可茶);
2001-10-18(#228351@0)
my parents have very happy life although they only met once before they got married. and my mom told me she was so shy, she even did not take a look at my father. but now life is not simple, feeling is complicated.
-lilyba(lily);
2001-10-18{81}(#228355@0)
it is hard to say which is better. i just want to find the better way for myself.
If you found the one whom you love, go ahead until you get him/her. If you haven't or couldn't find one, start to learn to love the one who loves you.
-cocotea(可可茶);
2001-10-18(#228362@0)
I guess it's easier for girls to learn to love a non-ideal lover. Guys alway love the one which he think ideal. hehe...
-cocotea(可可茶);
2001-10-18(#228347@0)
I don't think so. Guys are more like animals, they care physical desire more than feeling, but girls, if no love...cannot imagine
-wander2001(wander);
2001-10-18(#228373@0)
if you call that physical desire as love...let's say,
-cocotea(可可茶);
2001-10-18{189}(#228383@0)
a girl marry a normal guy without love, 40 years later, she might loves him. A guy marry a normal girl without love, 40 years later, he might appreciate her, but still doesn't love her. :P
Agree... and maybe you will really love him/her at last. :P
-cocotea(可可茶);
2001-10-18(#228344@0)
蚂蚁 mm 调查这干啥?想......?
-lemondy(麋鹿);
2001-10-18(#228292@0)