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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 给欲在加寻找另一半的他（她）的一封信 -antking(little ant); 2001-2-21 {644} (#27789@0)
    有很多次，在网上看到他（她）发帖子，寻找在加的另一半。我看，发帖子的人一般分为两类。一类是刚拿到LP即将landing的，另一类是在加已经安定下来，却限于社交范围的。对于前者来说，可能是大多数的，所以，我劝你们不要抱太大的希望，生活是现实的。等待你的世界是残酷的，生计都还未着落，不要去想象有个人会分担你的寂寞，再说，你在国内再优秀，那儿的经历在加等于零。就是有人会理睬你，肯定与你半斤八两，总之不会比你强。真能做到相互扶持，我恭喜你。Otherwise, forget it. 对于第二种人，我到要劝劝你们。要把眼睛张张大，想想他真的爱你吗？在这个等价交换的世界，要用大脑思考。
    朋友们，希望你们现实一点。老话说，世上没有救世主，万事只有靠自己。绝对没错。 祝你们在加好运！
    • Disagree!!!!!!!! -guest:; 2001-2-22 {1229} (#27827@0)
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I would probably agree with you if you say this few months earlier, but now... no way.

      I know a guy who has been here many years, living on welfare and working on high school diploma in an adult school, Still have problem to finalize his refuge status, worst yet he is from Shanghai, (most Chinese don't like Shanghai people don't you agree?). And here is a girl works in a big law firm on a management position. "Good looking" is just not enough for her. Because of the job she get to know some very wealthy families in town, as I know at least three times those rich Chinese parents tried to hook her up with their son but ...you know… never worked out…No was the answer.

      I almost killed myself when one day the gal told me she will marry that guy by the end of the year and the wedding will be hold at that guy's home in Shanghai. THE GAL IS MY SISTER!!! What a fucking idiot!!!..........

      I’ve keep fighting with it for three month and now I know there is nothing I can do to change her mind unless there is a miracle. I just give up…let them suffer!

      So boyz and galz, keep up dreaming, who knows what gonna happen, you probably gonna to be the next one that God (or unfortunate someone) will eyeing on.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 爱情的事岂能是这么简单的。说在加拿大找终身伴侣不易是因为这里华人人口基数少，新移民生活压力大。如果你找对象时总把对方归到那两类人里边去，那么你肯定高不成低不就独老终身。 -rolling(Rollor); 2001-2-22 (#27905@0)
    • 找 另 一 半 如 果 限 定 范 围 的 化 ， 是 否 太 牵 强 ？ 感 情 可 是 一 种 化 学 反 应 ， 奇 妙 ，不 断 变 化 ， 不 是 一 件 简 单 的 事 吧 ？ -4myself(seeker); 2001-2-27 (#29024@0)
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