Topic: 为何无人问津----答复爱的闲谈的 about love sex and promise ????? @枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 为何无人问津----答复爱的闲谈的 about love sex and promise ????? -drunker(drunker); 2001-12-19 (#304248@0)

有性或者没有性，有承诺或者没有承诺，有爱或者没有爱，这三者理论上没有必然联系。对于#303051，我相信它还是代表了很多人的观点，需要处理好这三者的关系。 -bingle(bingle); 2001-12-19 (#304288@0)

让我想起在国内关于“同居”的讨论：同居不一定同房；同房不一定同床；同床不一定同衾；同衾还不一定...... -xxjjs(东方射日); 2001-12-21 (#306049@0)

Very Interesting..... -babyface(Tracy); 2001-12-19 {425} (#304426@0)
Agree with love and sex parts. well, something like to add to commitment part:
loving somebody and knowing to be loved back, is kind a commitment already i think. just inside heart, but not on the mouth.....Also, commitment is what people who are family oriented will need, thinking of family and having children.
Also, If love become a habit, or just a feeling that u feel comfortable with somebody all the time! so??????

watch out though -drunker(酒囊饭袋); 2001-12-19 {195} (#304464@0)
When getting too comfortable, it could be bored. Therefore, give it a thought from time to time, punch each other so you can have a renew feeling. Well, a right word could be "keep discovering"

不排除大胆推想的可能吧？如果真的_feel comfortable_，不会担心说出自己的愿望和想法，get bored的可能性应该降低，呵呵。 -suis(une chinoise); 2001-12-20 (#305199@0)
pretty opening -drunker(酒囊饭袋); 2001-12-20 (#305655@0)

哎，这年头只要自己和配偶对得起自己的道德要求就行了，别人怎么样就不费神了，呵呵。 -suis(une chinoise); 2001-12-20 (#305198@0)