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  • 枫下家园 / 医药保健 / 我错在哪了？ -confusing(confusing); 2002-1-7 {901} (#325998@0)
    因为自己不小心，需要做人流。第一次面对这种事，又是在国外，心里有点发慌。打了第一个电话说是要到这个月16号才能做，理由是要在闭经后7个星期。因为觉得有点晚，想早点结束呕吐的烦恼，就又打了一家，回答说是这个星期四就能做，高兴之余问了一句话，没想到就此惹上了麻烦，我问了一下不到7个星期做有没有什么危险（这个星期还不到7个星期），她就问我怎么会有这个疑问，我说别的诊所是这样说的，她说既然你已经跟别的诊所预约了为什么又来我们这里呢，我说觉得时间有点晚，但又不知道什么时候是安全的。她又问我是哪个人告诉我这个信息的，我觉得把别的诊所的名字告诉她似乎不妥，就没有说。没想到她越发生气，说没法回答我的问题，还说因此不想给我预约，我觉得其中可能有误会，就解释道我并没有想冒犯她，如果需要我可以道歉，但我只是初次遇到这样的问题，所以有点紧张，也想了解一点基本常识，可是她仍旧表示不想再接受我的预约请求，并说情我去别的诊所就医。我放下电话后很是不解和生气，我错在哪了，这里的诊所秘书有这么大的权利吗，是我做错了还是她错了？
    • 第二家是中国人开的吗？很可能是这家诊所有不合法或是不规范的地方，可能她以为你在调查她。要是真有这样的问题，还是不去的好。少安毋躁，注意身体。 -olivia1998(olivia); 2002-1-7 (#326010@0)
      • 谢谢，都是西人的诊所，倒是好好练了一把英语。 -confusing(confusing); 2002-1-7 (#326021@0)
    • 谢谢楼上的朋友，他们都是西人开的诊所。 -confusing(confusing); 2002-1-7 (#326030@0)
      • I think it's about they are under pressure: It's not well acceptable in Canada to have abortion. Most people believe it's against the will of God and -patpat(乃胡侃而已); 2002-1-7 {649} (#326071@0)
        It's not well acceptable in Canada to have abortion. Most people believe it's against the will of God. Although it's legal for doctors helping doing it before fertilised egg grows into embryo, which i believe needs at least, say, 7 weeks, they are called murders. So I suppose the first doctor you called did not want to help you at all. That's why they asked you to wait until it's too late. And the second is so cautious that they did not want to be hooked up when you told them you had called a clinic already.

        You may call the 3rd and just let them know your need and if they ask why, give then 1, 2 and 3 reasons justifying and, moral.
    • 我的估计：第二家诊答允你在7周之内做手术属于非法或者不规范，后来担心出麻烦（法律纠纷），就不敢了。//建议你等一等，不要为几天的烦恼，影响将来的健康。 -bingle(bingle); 2002-1-7 (#326097@0)
      • I still believe it has nothing to do with legality. Okay, go to yahoo.com and search by key word "abortion, canada", you will be an expert. -patpat(乃胡侃而已); 2002-1-7 (#326118@0)
        • 看了你楼上的贴子，我首先想到的是一部电影《If the walls could talk》(你的生命，我的决定) 讲述三个时代三个女人(Cher / Demi Moore / Sissy Spacek)的不同境遇。 -bingle(bingle); 2002-1-7 {462} (#326164@0)
          故事1：堕胎还没有合法化，黛米摩尔不能去医院做手术，结果只能偷偷去找野郎中，后死于大出血。
          故事2：堕胎已经合法化，但是反对的人很多。支持堕胎的医生雪儿被一个激进的反堕胎人谋杀。
          故事3：到了90年代，Sissy Spacek终于可以自由选择堕胎，但是她最终选择保留了孩子。

          不过，我刚才确实没想到这个问题，因为我觉得在现在，医生考虑更多的应该是他的职业操守，而不是上面的问题。

          这是一些常识，供参考：
          5~8周是胚胎成型；
          10周以前是流产的最佳时期；
          12周以后就是晚期流产了。
    • 别去什么诊所.去年790号BAY STREET,在BAY/COLLEGE,ICBC楼里8楼,叫WOMEN'S HEALTH CENTER,你可以和那里的CONSELLER谈,他们会回所有问题, -bluegirl(bluegirl); 2002-1-10 {96} (#329577@0)
      也可以为你提供ABORTION的详细信息,可以为你做ABORTION,或推荐你到WOMEN'S HOSPITAL或相关诊所.快去吧
    • my experience -bjduck(北京烤鸭); 2002-1-10 {824} (#329597@0)
      pls see your family doctor first and do blood testing. it will show the doctor how long you have been pregnant. Then if you want to do the TA and he agreed he will arrange the appointment for you. I went to family doctor on Thursday, check the result on Friday and did the TA on next Monday.
      I did it at Sca...(don't know how to spell) Professional Center. A Chinese woman doctor. Soooo excellent. She explained clearly on all your questions and confusions. You will talk with her or an assistant before the operation. I can't explain all these problem in English so I can talk with her directly. From her I felt the benefit of Canadian health system. You can meet with expert when u have problem. She also worked for several native speakers at the same time so it must be authorized.
      Don't worry, it is just so easy!
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