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  • 相约北美 / 移民留学 / 大话西游之laid off
    曾经有意份珍贵的工作摆在我的面前,我没有珍惜,等到失去的时候, 才知道尘世间的痛苦莫过于此,如果上天能给我一次机会,我会对老板说,留下我,如果非要给这个工作一个期限,我要说,一万年(一百年就够了),
    It's over, 即刻走人,连一个申辩的机会都没有, 回来坐在有暖气的bus上,感到一阵阵的寒意,强忍着不让眼泪流下.......想着又要开开始奔波,找工作,怎样面对妻子和初生女儿,...... 突然发现早已坐过了站....
    • 保重!
      • 谢谢,想找个地方渲泄,不能在家里,你知道.......
        • 社区游泳池, 狂游几百圈, 蒸个桑那, 出一身大汗. 回家蒙头大睡一天, 经验之谈.
          • 俺那个是室外的,结了冰. 嘿嘿,俺只会狗刨和仰泳.
          • 大姐!顺便问一句,咱们最近的社区中心在哪?有体育设施的。想找个健身房,昨天去mid-Scarborough看,是给seniors预备的,哪里还有?想找个室内可以锻炼的地方,省得早上跑步又嗓子疼。谢谢!
        • 当然要和家人一起商量了,一起想办法。
          • 他的家人= 一个新妈妈+一个新生儿。还是不要跟他们商量比较好。:D
          • 俺那位总是事后诸葛亮,"你看,当初你要是听我的,怎么怎么样.bluh,bluh,bluh...." 俺听着头疼.
            • 或许是以前家里没遇到过真正的困难,说不定这次给你一个善解人意的惊喜。对不起,可能瞎说,我自己还没结婚呢。
              不过,看过电影《红西服》,就是写丈夫下岗了,不和妻子说闹出的种种故事。我总觉得遇到事情连老婆都不能告诉,那还娶老婆干什么。
    • 别太难过了,想想我们这些从来没有找到工作的苦命人吧。cheer up
    • 这事俺也碰上过,别太难过,有工作经验找工还是要容易些。有什么特殊的原因么?
      • 谢谢大夥儿, 是我自己的错(至少80%), I missed the deadline because of Christmas and 生孩子.奇怪的是老板从来不过问偶的进度, 偶只是晚了两个星期, 就shoot to death.
        • 好像有点牛.
        • 这个老板不是人。
    • 休息几天,平静一下心情,给多一点时间感觉家的温暖,也给家多一点温暖。这不算失败,失去是为了给得到腾出空间而已。心中有爱,还有什么缺憾呢?
      • 如果心中一直有爱,但还是没有工作怎么办呢?
        • 互补吧,嘿嘿嘿...
        • 再去找啊,揣着爱来找工作,总比又找爱又找工作来得幸运吧?
    • 在这里lay off不算失败, 这里的人都是半年找工, 半年打工的, 这里是资本主义社会, 打工和找工再正常不过了. layoff是公司的政策, 不算个人成败. 呵呵, 思想还没换过来:P
      • 蚂蚁来的时间不长呀,怎么什么都知道?PF
        • 我瞎掰的:P:P
      • 睡了一大觉,心情好多了
        睡了一大觉,心情好多了.思想还没换过来? 有点, 俺在国内从来都是炒老板. 拷! 从来都是老板跟在俺后面催, 老板不催,就打游戏. 到了这边,心里暗自高兴,加拿大就是自由,老板从不盯着你,从不过问你的工作.... 没想到..... 希望众=兄弟姐妹以我为鉴,也算俺没白被炒.
        • 那就再多睡几个大觉。:P 没什么大不了的,别太自责了,工作总会有的,正好可以多点时间陪陪你的宝宝。:D
        • 再吃点好吃的,心情会更好。你的教训极重要,up一下,有工的都来给自己敲个警钟吧。在上班的看完这个贴就赶快退出去好好干活吧。hoho
    • 没关系。坚信自己的能力!从头开始。吸取教训。将来会更好!
    • Take care.
    • 坚强一些,这几天多和家人,朋友聊天,心里想什么就聊什么,切忌一个人闷着,否则家人和朋友会更担心的。 好人一生平安!
    • 是啊,很多人不珍惜自己千辛万苦得来的工作,也许不是你自己的错误,而是你自己还没有适应这里的环境。不管如何,吸取经验教训,从哪里跌倒了,再从哪里爬起来。有了第一个面包,第二个会来的
    • 同病相怜,Take care!
      • 你也丢了面包?
        • Oh yeah. Check message 335234. Come on,cheery up,buddy!
    • Shake it off and take a step up!
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to be covered up anyway, it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey. So he invited all his neighbours to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realised what was happening and cried horribly.
      Then, to everyone's amazement, he kept quiet. A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw. With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and trotted off!

      Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
      • whew, what a amazing reply! I learned from it, tks.
      • Great!!! love it.