酒至三巡，谈起人生，一哥们(西人)说，
“Philosophy and psychology are only good for study or anything that had happened, when applying to the real world, none of them can really work for you. You got to try and make mistakes, and surrender...."

本人正频频点头，忽觉得这个surrender来的有点奇怪， 忍不住答茬，
“what do you mean by surrender?"

"you know what surrender is, don't you? Surrender means, at some circumstances, you got to pick a less risky option in order to get going, which may not be the first option."

哒一口PORT，我抿抿嘴，"Well, for me, it is simple, to surrender is just to give up what you want..."

"No no no no....there is nothing to do with you want or not want because you may not know what you want until you surrender."

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诸位看官，对此有何高见？