还有揣着英国PHD, 在英国住了多年,来了5年还在打Labour的, 还有来了20年英文还听不懂说不明白的

看你追求“突破”的是什么了，如果是事业，你就要寻求自雇的机会，因为你现在的地位在这里至少不是很容易在进一步的；如果是爱情，我就不多说了，相信你已经看了很多关于这方面的贴子，前景不容乐观；如果是学位，读完了年纪也大了；如果是生活，有的人喜欢热闹，有的人喜欢清静，并非每个人都喜欢寂寞的蓝天白云，不过可以体会一下心灵的自由与宁静。

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛人往高处走，水往低处溜。

谁不是向往更美好的生活？如果你在加拿大站住脚，适应了加拿大的生活方式，你还会愿意回到那个发展中国家去为共产主义奋斗吗？

我有个同学，到美国留学一年后跟我说，毕业后肯定要回国。可结果怎么样？一毕业就拼命找工作，终于在美国待下来了。

如果你在加拿大站不住脚，最终还是觉得国内发展机会多，那你当初就不应该来。白白消耗了自己几年的时间和全部家当。

你移民、回国的目的到底是什么？

学英语？如果你生活工作都在中国，英语不需要那么好！何况，与其吃那么大苦跑加拿大来学英语，不如去新东方憋上一年，效果肯定比出国好。

幸福？有人觉得老婆孩子热炕头是幸福，有人则非得做个社会栋梁才觉得幸福。

对于有些人，“父母在，不远行”。移民不仅不幸，而且不孝。而有些人，“好儿女志在四方”，移居他乡照样耀祖光宗。

我知道的经常回国的移民，是中加两地来回跑的太空人。他们为了生意的需要不得不如此。至于那些在这边有了较好的收入和交安定的生活的人，如果国内没有高职高薪高待遇的诱惑的话，我想不出他们为什么回去（当然，很可能是人家道德水平高尚，非我辈所能理解）。

是走是留随你，但要当机立断。走就走，留就留。不要想什么走是为了回来，没用。你可以给自己留条后路，比如保留户口什么的，但走之前，一定要下定决心，立志扎根加拿大。更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

你可以问一下自己, 事业对自己到底重不重要?

来了以后没人能够保证你能找到专业工作, 如果你找不到, 你在加拿大获得的经验回国根本没人认可. 即使找到了专业工作, 你可以获得北美的被管理经验, 这对你回国从事管理工作益处不大.

如果想读书, 完全可以在国内申请.

想想看, 一来一回就至少折腾掉3,5年, 值不值得.

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1)Improve your English, especially for oral English and listening. It is possible, but depend on you how to do. Live with Canadian people or find a Canadian GF or attend Canadian church or keep watching TV...
2)You can change your status in case China's disorder in the future
3)You can try to study in the university. You can get two advantages from it. Improving your English writing and getting Canadian degree
4)Breath fresh air here
After all these done, you can go back ASAP, and you won't lose anything although you take 3~4 years. In China, you will find many chances to develop youself.

Although my friends have higher degree and good salary, why do some of them generate the idea. I think it is easy to understand from the following points:
1)They want to do some meaningful things, and there are many chances for them in China. Aftert joining WTO, China needs many people who have foreign Ph.D., fluent English, many years work experience in world_wide famous companies. They hold these conditions.
2)Money is not first important, but it is essential. Canadian income tax is very high in the world. You will leave a little bit after you pay tax, EI, CPP, car insurance, mortgage etc. It is impossible to employ a children's nurse or housekeeper because expensive labour fee. You can easily get all these in China as long as you have good salary. Look like my friends, they can buy a good apartment after selling their house, and they get good payment in China(less than Canadian salary after convert into RMB).
3)Just feeling is very different. In China, they have many choices. They can select to become university's professors(so easy comparison with here), senior engineers in IT industry, Institute's research staff etc. They went abroad when they were less than 30 years old, many years past, and they felt they are tired and want to find a stable and safe life to do some research.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

其实看看很多公司在提拔人时不是更愿意从本公司中优秀人中选吗?而不是看你有没有MBA,你失去这几年,回去位置真就不是你的了,高位置有没有只能看到时的市场情况了,我觉的你根本不知道你想做什么,也是跟了移民的潮