1）由于被误解“不解风情”，导致对方不满意。难免会推迟婚期。
2）也许还没结婚，心中的王子就被别的“主动出击”的姑娘抢走。
3）也许婚后才知道俩人私生活不协调，不满意。
4）也许结了婚，才知道遇上了性无能者。又会离婚。

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It is so common that when girls get married the other part is not the man she love most. In my opinion
if you have a chance of making love with the one you love most, you should do it, otherwise you will be sorry for it.

You will never find true love if you think it over complex. As if you give you virgin to that boy, you loose something.
It is too ridiculous, as such an educated people, you still think in that way.

in 21 century to think in that way, as long as you met some one you love,he loves to , you can have such sex relationship
with each other

我知道这观点太古老, 也不现实...........由它去吧, 想咋样就咋样, 不必烦恼!

It seems that you are obliged to do in that way. I don't believe that you never met
somebody you love very much who you'd like to make love with.

1， 有不少人因为“这个”性的方面不合适，结婚了之后不幸福，甚至离婚。而结婚是个非常重要的事情，不能马马虎虎啊，这证明了自己对婚姻和家庭的重视。

2， 有的人追求的就是爱的彻底，如果这个不发生，那个不发生，他们会很别扭。你知道，你不可能爱一个人别别扭扭的。如果加上1的理由。他们完全可能首先就拒绝和你恋爱。

3， 人和人是不一样的，人家的想法未必和你一样，他们在宣扬婚前要作的时候影响到你，你感觉怪怪的或者不理解，相同的情况，也会发生在他们看你的时候，如何处理是个人自己的问题，看你的情况自己办咯。不必奇怪

4， 还有一些人是不正经的看这个问题的，乱说的，还有就是心怀不轨的，恶意的，我想，你应该学会辨别这些，不受他们的影响。

hohohoho，说了好像不只一个理由咯，哈哈
祝你好运！

如果你自己认为很可贵的，你就应该坚持。干吗管别人说什么呢。
当然，我觉得这样的女孩太古板啦，从我的感觉来说，这样的女孩，可能会拿性方面作为一种要挟的手段。可能这样的女孩虚荣心强一点。
（呵呵，猜得。完全没有理由）

如果一个男人真心爱你， 他不会在乎你是不是处女；如果你真心爱一个男人，把自己最宝贵的第一次交给他也是一种幸福！婚姻代表不了什么。

如果你是为了自己心目中理想的爱人而守护这片处女地，我倒是支持你；如果仅仅是为了婚姻，还是醒醒吧，很无聊的！

我的建议是：一拒，二拒，但不能有三。挺多女孩调男友胃口，最终结果是鸡飞蛋打。中国的男女之间在结婚前缺乏太多的交流，（有些婚后也缺乏交流），这是由缺乏人性的历史世俗观点造成的。西方发达国家男女之间（指朋友之间）或多或少谈论一些性方面的话题，但中国的异性朋友之间则太少谈论这些话题，只能是情侣之间才谈，有些则谈论得很少，直等到结婚以后才谈，从生理学角度，从心理学角度，从人性角度，那都是错的。
谨祝小虎牙好运！

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛in my opinion, this is related to the calture. For the western people or those CBC, they may not care about this very much. But for most of the immigrants from China, they care. Both sides care about it and sooner or later this becomes a probllem of the family and marriage.

For the male side, if this guy receive enough education and influence from the mainstream calture, he may not care about it. This is especially true for the young and well-educated guys. Because they know what is the most treasurable of a girl, not the virgin, but the personality, which will affect the family life for the whole life of both. Indeed, in history, we Chinese neither care about this much.

For the female side, if this girl is confident enough, and with a good personaility, this wont be a trouble at all. However, some gals are just too inconfident about themselves, and as they got trouble in their future marriage, the first thing coming to their mind is the viginity. They will recall the time staying with their first lover, and make comparison, and this makes them further feel unsatisfied with their current husbands. and whatever the process will be, they will get trouble.

So just consider you will live in a community of such a calture, you'd better treat it seriously. maybe you are lucky to meet an open-minded Mr. right. But your Mr. right may care about it.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

你是自由的！在关键问题的选择上方可以见到你的智慧！因为选择不同所以大千世界这样精彩！
反正我是很敬重这种女孩子的！

I think you are right. And do not worry about other's words, I support you for ever!