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  • 枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 我也来做调查:如果你刚认识一个人(中国人),从别人那里得知他(她)是:离婚,/婚外恋,/未婚同居.你对他(她)的第一印象会如何?我觉得这个问题有六个小问,就是说可能对是男女的态度还回不一样.对了,就说这人在25-30岁之间吧,不然还不好说. -cocotea(可可茶-六月的茉莉梦); 2002-2-25 (#380366@0)
    • understand--able -iamliar(Wu_Zheng); 2002-2-25 (#380367@0)
    • 离他（如果他有妻子或其他女朋友）远点，避免不必要的麻烦. -why(蝶衣); 2002-2-25 (#380370@0)
      • 蛙塞！当超级传染病啊？？？ -babyface(Tracy); 2002-2-26 (#380787@0)
    • 啊,我误导群众了.:P 我是指这个人是离婚,/婚外恋,/未婚同居中的其中一个啦.要不这人还不成花心大罗卜了? -cocotea(可可茶-六月的茉莉梦); 2002-2-25 (#380378@0)
      • 接受程度 离婚>未婚同居>婚外恋 -happy_4_7(饱经磨难的人参果㊣); 2002-2-25 (#380422@0)
        • same as my opinion. -lazycat(沧海一笑); 2002-2-25 (#380425@0)
      • 未婚同居>离婚>婚外恋 -clinux(C/Linux); 2002-2-25 (#380435@0)
    • 我认为，别人的选择是别人的，应该给与尊重，只要这个人没有欺诈，小气狭隘，不光明磊落，猥亵等等不良因素在内的话！ -naughtypig(皮皮猪吃饱乐); 2002-2-25 (#380434@0)
      • 没错 -seawolf(海狼); 2002-2-25 (#380443@0)
        • 握手先。。。 -naughtypig(皮皮猪吃饱乐); 2002-2-26 (#380678@0)
      • 对头！ -babyface(Tracy); 2002-2-26 (#380789@0)
    • 离婚和未婚同居都是个人自由，没有什么可非议的。只是婚外恋我觉得不道德，因为牵扯到第三方 -wander2001(我和春天有个约会); 2002-2-25 (#380464@0)
      • 嗯，基本同意。如果配偶没有默许，那么搞婚外恋是欺骗和对家庭不负责。这么说是因为想起了报纸上说的桔子红了的剧情。 -suis(☆★○●◎◆◇■△▲); 2002-2-25 (#380475@0)
        • 桔子红了和上面说的....相干么? -cocotea(可可茶-六月的茉莉梦); 2002-2-25 (#380482@0)
          • 大概不相干，不过和我的意思相干。要是两个都婚外恋，或者没搞婚外恋的知道对方婚外恋却愿意忍受，那么no complaint，就无所谓道不道德啦。 -suis(☆★○●◎◆◇■△▲); 2002-2-25 (#380490@0)
    • 都是私生活，别人有什么接受不接受的。 -ttl(㊣羊肉泡馍); 2002-2-25 (#380600@0)
    • 花儿为什么这样红,...............什么时候---哇, 才能看道---你尊重别人的隐私权.. -playtiger(等明天的老虎); 2002-2-25 (#380607@0)
    • 把这个问题延伸一下：如果离婚,/婚外恋,/未婚同居的对象是你或是你的亲人（比如：未婚同居的对象是你的孩子，婚外恋的对象是你的LG或LP，等等）你的态度和接受程度是否会和你前面的回答有所不同？ -fionah(Fiona); 2002-2-25 (#380654@0)
      • 立场不一样, 世界观肯定有差别. :-) -expertune(CreateObject("专家")); 2002-2-26 (#380693@0)
      • ‘婚外恋的对象是你的LG或LP’？？？？那当然大件事啦！！！ -babyface(Tracy); 2002-2-26 (#380792@0)
        • 可也是别人的私生活呀。而且，你如果不关心，可能根本不知道其中的隐情，比如，他/她的对象就是你的XX. :) -fionah(Fiona); 2002-2-26 (#380860@0)
    • 三者都有也没什么巴，这是属于私生活方面，管那么多干吗 -stinky(funky); 2002-2-26 (#380827@0)
    • It's not funny at all! -drunker(酒囊饭袋); 2002-2-26 {2411} (#380987@0)
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛It's understandable, but honestly, I feel sorry for him/her. Don't take me wrong - I am not pity on this person, I just feel sorry for him/her.

      Personally I am not yet convinced by any religions, but somehow I do believe that nature got its own way to take care of things. For some people, no matter what they do, their lifes turn out to be simple and happy. For others, no matter what they do, their lifes always turn out to be more complicated than we could ever immagine.

      STAY AWAY FROM THIS TYPE OF COMPLICATED ONES unless you are anxious to taste fire or ice. Life could be much more nutritious if you know how to stay simple.

      The smartness always mislead smarties! I just happen to know a smart cookie no less than the case you mentioned, only more complicated even. She knows everything you want to say to her before you open your mouth, she wouldn't prove it to you she is right, but no matter what, you know she gonna do it on her own way --- put herself into fire and ice!


      Of cause she is damned attractive, she's got guts to try anything you or I would never intent to touch. She might be just a fool! Most of her friends have called her so. I try to be as opening as I could be to view her actions and views. It is so hard not to love her because she never really gives up on herself. SHE IS ALIVE! The only thing she scares so far is to live like a walking corpse. I can't say it is wrong, but something seems to be just not right!

      Don't get me wrong again - You shall know by now, lovers are not always ending up to be together, actually over 80% of lovers don't have good endings. Why? because they have been determined to do this test again and again until they really learn -- like a Chinese saying, when a carp is trying to jump out a dragon gate. ...

      The only unexpected thing is that, many of innocent peoples would get involved finally at this circumstance, her feeling might not be so important after all, so???

      It's not a personal thing anymore. I am really curious to know how she would handle this. Call me coward, I don't mind if so what I care the most would be stable....


      sign!


      Life is supposed to be nutritious, but when you see her, you see a war...


      STAY AWAY FROM those COMPLICATED ONES not because you couldn't handle it, it is because you really don't have to handle it -- you could get better reward on other things......更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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