本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛首先幸福是一种心态,是一种感觉, 不同的人对同样的生活会有不同感受;幸福来自于自信, 自信来自于自己呈现给社会/家庭的贡献 - 包括职场上和家务上的得心应手, 孩子小的时候,我也有过6年全职妈妈经验, 那时哪怕我一点都不让老公操心家里的活, 他还是总把工作上的负面情绪带回家,虽然我理解他对这那份工作看得很重, 毕竟只有他一人在挣钱,但我也想得到他的肯定,一句"老婆辛苦"就够 - 没有。
现在我有一份我喜欢的工作,老公似乎扬眉吐气了,转成contractor,做他喜欢的,整天开开心心,contract快到期也不着急,口口声声称"老婆能顶一下, 我怕什么"
每天早上6点开始我充实的一天,有人认为那是操劳,但我觉得小幸福充满了每一天,感谢上天。
6:00 - get up, make breakfast, and pack up lunch.
7:15 – leave from home, my son’s school is in downtown; I drive him to a subway station then go to work.
I like driving; it is so enjoyable to me to drive on highway in the morning.
8:20 – get the office, exercise at gym.
Thanks for the opportunity of driving my son; otherwise I won’t make an hour in gym.
9:30 – start work
I like my job, learning new technologies give me the excitement as much as you upgrade your iphone, everyday I appreciate so much that I am doing what I like.
4:30 – leave for home
I like diving on countryside road through green belts; I enjoy the different views in the different seasons.
5:30 - home
I love cooking, and I am a good cooker, I like to be the first one back home, I like to hear “I am home” when my kids and my husband come back; I like to be asked “what we eat today”, I like to see they enjoy the dinner after long, busy day. Of course “Thanks Mom for the delicious dinner” is the one I like mostly.
Driving 100km each day – no complain as I like it
Cooking every weekday – no complain as I like it更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net