Try to place everybody discussing with you on rolia is one of your best friends. Try to think they are sitting beside you and taking with you face to face. Try to forgive people said bad words just like forgive your friends who did the same thing. Things are quite different?
Each topic has different opinions. Each opinion is based on a different point of view because people has different background, personality and experience. everybody has the right to express his or her opinion but does't has the right to ask others to accept your idea.
Please forgive my English because I can't type in Chinese now. Keep smile! Have a nice day!