one family, husband and wife argue all day, only except when one suggest divorce. Husband are proud, " I can easily find a virgin in China". Another family, wife has really good life here. Her husband earn salary for her living, and her "guy friends" spend time for her leisure life. I do not know which kind of family is better, western or chinese.
and also, I have my own job. i am independent. when you say woman was disposed like a garbage, don't you think it is ridiculous?