If your exeriences, your wife played a role of mentor. This helped you a lot. I still can remember the difficulties I have experienced...
I messed up VB tool bar, I asked help from others but they either di't know how to solve the problem or had no patience in helping me. For a beginner, there are a lot of difficulties and frustrations....If anybody wants to join IT gambling, he/she must allow some time. In addition, most people need some guidance at the very beginning.