In Japan , you are a pig to them , but here at least your husband will feel like a man . As for you , you can stay home , and have several babies for your husband only . I don't think it is a bad choice . Because you can not do it in China . By the way , 50k US$ means no money in Japen . You know that , I think your husband can earn more if he is really good . But most important is his feeling , not yours . You are still a silly girl . How old are you ? 20 , 21 . If you are older than me , I'm 26 . You are retarded .