So, I will recommend you that get together with your husband as soon as possible and stay together at least for a few years.两个人在一起互敬互爱，先不要管他是否有了外遇（毕竟他觉得对不起你而且还要补偿你，我认为这是表明他还爱你），把这一段时间度过去。 至于他是否真的有了外遇由你自己去判断，若有是否需要追究也要看你自己了。总之，尽快结束分居生活。