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I agree with you that going abroad is a fashion beginning many years ago and too many people go after it without thinking. It is a fashion that by definition is ‘right’ without reason. Can you remember when someone tells you he/she will go abroad, what you have in your mind? Envy? Admire? Few would remind him/her life there might be very hard. Actually none of us would think life overseas may be worse. I don’t see many people say they regret going abroad, so maybe in general it is good. But we also read some bad news, some family tragedy. So if you don’t have strong enough willpower to endure material and mental pressure, consider it seriously, especially for those who have families to support, think it twice. As a matter of fact, people who are sober-minded and decide not to pursuit of the trend are really brave men.
I haven’t changed my mind yet because my situation is much better. I have a moneymaker behind me, so definitely I won’t do labor for living. Otherwise I wouldn’t think about going abroad at all. It is terrible.＜本文发表于: 相约加拿大:枫下论坛 www.rolia.net/f ＞