本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Dear David:

Thank you very much for taking time writing to me. You are not the first one who warns me about a possible marriage break-up. That's my worry, too. I guess we will have tremendous pressure in Canada in the beginning. And people under great pressure tend to be impatient and easy to lose temper. I will try to remind myself to calm down when we face problems in Canada. I do hope we will tide over all the difficulties together because I do love my husband.

But I am still not so sure about kid education. Even if everything is great for kids, what kind of culture they will adopt? If a kid becomes westernized, he/she will certainly have a huge cultural gap with the parents. This is also a big concern for me. I don't want to bring my kid here and hear her shout to me in English or do other things that worry me in the future.

Anyway, I know friends can give me a lot of good advice and help me to look at things from different angles. But still, it is up to oneself to make up the final decision. Thank you very much.

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