sometimes we should learn to forgive others. You are not the only one living a hard life here. I came here on April, my husband came here at the end of June, and whatever, he left for Beijing yesterday , I believe life for me and my daughter here is pretty hard. The only thing in my mind now is trying to find a job and giving my daughter a better life. In front of my daughter, I tried to stop my tears yesterday. I don't hope that my daughter is feard about the future life here. Best wishes to those female who have to face hard life alone and support her family.