See, able, you are using "like" instead of " love", for both of you. So, it seems that it's still the start stage... What I think is,

lumlumq (lumlum)
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Both of you are playing a game, a love game. And it's quite dangerous. I do believe you still love your wife, at least you don't really want to leave her, for whatever reason. Otherwise you won't be bothered, otherwise, you could leave your wife, just say goodbye to your current life.

Think about it, in our lives, we could be attracted by so many people, by their wise, by their apperances, by their spirit, any special aspect can make you like the person. But maybe there is only one person, who you really love and who really loves you, could accompany you the whole life journey. Besides love, you have to consider whether your character could match, whether you could really understand each other, and bear his or her shortcomings,,, After all the romantic and exciting affair, eventually you have to face the quite, simple and repeating life. My friend told me, if both of you two could feel comfortable with each other, till the end of the life, it's a very good life already...

Think seriously about your family, your wife, your love story with your wife. If once you two did love each other deeply, and now you still feel comfortable with each other, you should thank god for all of this. I know how you feel. From the korean girl, you may find something which really attracts you, so fresh, so exciting, so attractive,,, and she shows her love to you also. So, you think you two " xiang qing xiang ai", and really want to be together. But able, how about after several years, you feel bored about all of this, and you find many cultural conflicts, or comparing with your current wife, you are not satisfied with the korean girl? Actually it's unfair to that korean girl too, 'cause you couldn't give a completed love to her. For sure.

Think about it. Seriously.

也许你偶尔还是会想她, 偶尔难免会掂计着她,
也让你心疼, 也让你牵挂,
所有真心的, 痴心的话,

走巴, 走巴,

I know you may like her, and you may have some beautiful stories with her, I do believe you may have some pure and sincere feeling, but, you are not an available guy already, keep it in mind. You have to be responsble for what you have done and what you own now,,, Right?


Wait for your good news,,,,

lumlum ^_^
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2001-2-2 -04:00

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