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1.Marriage and device are serious choice which should only involve two person not three.
Think over and over if the gap between you husband and you is sufficient to lead to separate. You should write down all the points one by one.
Supposing the guy doesnt exit are you willing to leave your husband and bring up your child by yourself enduring the endless dark night by yourself?
It will be fair for your husband if you make the decision to leave him after going through these points. Nobody can compel you to stay in a marriage without love.
People are so confused about the love and marriage. But there are some rules that must be followed! You have to end the existing relationship before starting a new relationship.
2.Think of the meaning of love.
It shows that you are a very sensitive and upward person from your posts. But you are ignoring that family is know as a quite harbor because woman is the cornerstone to support it. One of my friend she was famous of her beauty and dancing when she was in University. Her marriage is the only ideal one I have ever known even though her husband is a normal person in most peoples eyes. They are very successful both in the family life and their work now. I saw they experienced a lot of tough time including losing their beloved new-born baby…Before I left my city she just had a sleepless night in the office because her husband was a little bit lazy to exchanged opinion with her. She was trying so hard to keep and improve a good marriage. She had reached a almost impossible dream because of her persistence in loving seeking and mature personality not her beauty and luck. I was impressed by her traits in the every single day working with her and imagined if she chose another guy at the very beginning the marriage would be as good as the one she was having.
Love cannot last long that the reason romantic love stories are over welcomed by human beings. I am so regerted that I had read so many western classical fictions when I was even a small girl and had been seeking for a dream which will never come true. What about your love in your husband many years ago? What will happen if you go into this guys life after twenty or thirty years? More experience you have, more confidence you will be at this point. But seldom people double the love which parents give their children. Love human being and people around you and then you will be fulfilled. Love is not self-seeking but giving.
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