What I mean is when somebody feels hopeless and have a dim of wish for finding some support here, even expresses that he/she might end the life himself, we'd better help him, at least post some encourage words to him. One can not define a man who want suicide or not by his words or appearance. At least we should stop laughing at him. Many people just can not believe it even if it became a fact. I just read the story of Lu Gang somedays before, of course the responsibility laid meanly at himself, but what else did his community do to help him before the accident took place? They must at least regard him as a mankind even he is somewhat different, in fact everyone is different as the mother of Forrest Gump said.