This is a really good topic, I should say. When we dicided to have a baby, I was trying to find another job. Life is tough at that time. But all we care about is our baby. We believe that we will be fine after he is coming. He is a gift after all. You've never know how lucky you are in your life after you have your own baby. Baby can make you cry, make you laugh. One day, my wife asked me if our baby get hurt, what would I do? I said I will finght for him. " What if you are going to die?" she said. "I don't care, I will still alive in my baby's body". Sounds stupid, but that is what I thought.