a child makes you learn almost about everything; for instance, love, joy, trust, responsibility ---- a second thought about how to arrange your time schedule, a second thought when you think of divorce, a sencond thought when you want to kill yourself and so on. Basically, you will have one more motivation to be a better man/lady.
oppotunity when you want to do something considerably dangerous but exciting
Oh, well, freedom of ONLY being yourself. :( ; )