TALK WITH THEM WHEN YOU FEEL GOOD. EVERYTHING FAMILAR CAN BE THE TOPIC: DOG, CAT, BASEBALL, SMOKING, DRINKS, SEX...JUST TRY TO SPEAK AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND BRING ABOUT AS MANY JOKES AS POSSIBLE. NO ONE WILL SAY "HEY MAN, BUGS IN YOUR GRAMMAR" OR "HEY YOU SHOULD USE THIS OR THAT TERM", UNLESS YOU REALLY FUCK UP THE COMMUNICATION. ALL OF SUDDEN, YOU FIND YOU ARE ONE OF THE GROUP ALREADY!