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1. which one is more important - your partner is faithful to you or to himself?
To himself......coz I don't appreciate a shell without soul.
2, he is always following his heart even though he might be unfaithful to you, can you still trust him?
There could be hundreds of reason that he CHANGES from being faithful to me TO being unfaithful to me.............from outside (I could be a reason even) and inside affection.
Any way, It's hard for me use the word of "Trust" I guess. coz I am always a emotional edividual, and I have to be fair to myself as well. I will respect him (being true and brave ) more, maybe not publicly....but I will keep distance to him. like I appreciate somebody still who doesn't really relates to me much! if u know what I mean.
So trust (like my beloved? ) no, no way.......but trust as a old friend. maybe, if there is still friendship left.....
3, he doesn't follow his heart so that he could always be faithful to you, will you love and trust him more or less?
(Firstly, I think this questions is not only talking about friendship, but more like a relationship, is it? lol.)
Well, If I found so. I will leave him even before he leaves me. coz I will be strong enough to know I will be fine without his pretending faith, coz I prefer lonely and tough truth much more than unhonestness.........and he/she has to be honest to his/her heart.
that way, I might still love or trust him/her, but from a distance. Coz, the fact is something changed.
Ok, here is the question for you: ^o^
1, Is the diffence that obevious, that your heart is still faithful or unfaithful?
2, What will be your answers. (r u bothered by those thinkings? :-)
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