# 1, Is the diffence that obevious, that your heart is still faithful or unfaithful ?
--- I would say "Yes" and "No", all depense on how deeply this person would dig into his heart. In many cases, people compromise under the pressure from outside and inside of relasionship. It takes lots of courage to be true onself. You are one of few indeed!
#2, What will be your answers. (r u bothered by those thinkings? :-)
--- I have similar idea as yours, thanks for your concern. Moreover, have you been aware of what this attitude would bring to your life? A risky adventure, hmmmm, nice! very nice!