本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I like to keep myself space: that I may learn more! for many things. Well, I disagree with you. at least u r too negative, or maybe U have been acting as a ESCAPER? :-) ......I would not choose "trademark" and "dare" , but more like something both side agree and enjoy, but maybe don't need to say it on mouth even.

If both sides are mature, and confident to themselves and each other. why they have to ask another side not escape?
or one side take controlling? Love or relationship is more about sharing......

Talking about control feelings, I have been there. It could be so unhappy and not real me.

Talking about growing and changing, yes, it happen all the time, to almost everybody. I prefer the way like two grow up and learn together (not exactly, but somehow,). That would be great! :-)

Yes, respection is very important in a love. otherwise, it could be so exciting, but doesn't last long, like a big short file.

Sounds u r majored in Chinese? r u? u have good literature background do u? well, I read more foreign novels than chinese. :-)

Space is important. but there is one thing I am not sure about myself even: to be nice and slow is good. but how about tempture?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net