once a white friend of mine said to me :" xxxx, you know, you Chinese are so used to play guilt - how parents would think about it if I do this or that; how other people expect me to do this or that.... For western guys, we would say,"who cares?!!!!" no wonder Chinese are less happier!"
I opened my mouth, then said in a lower tone," not all the time...."
I opened my mouth, then said in a lower tone," not all the time...."