My god, what a mess! Forgot write `You1 Dian3` `Que1 Dian3`. what you need is looking into your heart, do you still have love to her? Love is no reason.Don`t forget she is also a human, a woman, did you ever think for her? How`s her thought now?
Try to figure it out , discuss with her, and make your dicision both.By the way, her calm don`t mean that she don`t care. Maybe her heart is blooding!