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1. Every year the director of our group have two parties. In last summer party, one of my colleague brought his girl friend and the son(about 3 years old) of his girl friend. He introduced to others: it's my son. We're surprised, and one lady asked:" I didn't know you have a son since you joined us four years ago, where did he come from?" He said the boy was his girl friend's son. Now they married and will have their twins this July. My colleague treats the boy like his own son and play with him very well. I believe he will still love the boy even after he has his own twins.
2. My son has a buddy in the day care and I always meet the boy's mother because our offices are near. One day the lady told me that the her son is adopted. She came from Caribbean, her husband came from Malysia, and their son came from India. They loved him very much and they don't think it need to hide the truth.
I'm impressed by them. I understand that Chinese always can not treat others' children like that way. I even asked my husband " Can you do like that?" He said it's very hard. I also think so. But we will try to do better, it'll let us happier.＜本文发表于: 相约加拿大:枫下论坛 www.rolia.net/f ＞