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I commented your posting because I graduated from Fudan University some years ago. Of course, our Alma Mater is a prestigeous school in China. Many of her graduates are very talented. I am very proud of my Alma Mater. Unfortunately, I do not fall into the category of talented people and I survive by hard working.
Sixteen years have passed since I left Fudan. I have met many and many talented people. It seems to me that not all the talented people are successful in their careers and lives. For talented people, it is important how to go along with others.
In this forum, most people are common people. They are not stupid, but they are not very intelligent likewise. Many friends, as skillful as they are, are still struggling for basic survival. This is a place for peole to encourage each other, not to show off. I do believe you are as smart ad your boyfriend. You may wonder why there are so few responses and comments on your posting, at lease before I made my bold comment.
I am an unsuccessful physicist. Around me were various intelligent people. Many of them graduated from Peking University, Tsinghua University..., of course, an d from Fudan University. After many years of struggling, most of them have found their positions as a member of generic workforce. Their self-introduction usually sounds like "I am
from Sichuan", or "I am from Northerneastern China...".
This is a bitter dose.
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