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I agree with you on most of your points, esp. No. 1.
Rolia is sailor's baby and I am sure he always welcomes and appreciates all participation. But it is not very good to claim it is private property when some conflicts occur. It is privately owned but it is also a public BBS.
On the other hand, I understand those "ban zhu3". They try to maintain a place pleasant for everybody. For some new people, it is SHOCKING to see some disagreement expressed in a not-so-nice way. We should be able to understand their limitation of absorbing those feedbacks. As time goes by, they would be able to get to know more IDs with the assurance that some of them are quite nice people, although they express themselves rather in a straightforward way.
Without diversity, Rolia will lose her charm. Without respect, people will feel offended and reluctant to come.
Sometimes, we need to take it easy.
As a member of rolia, I appreciate everybody's input, especially from those who don't always agree with me. But I will be more appreciated if the disagreement can be expressed in a decent way. If not, I just ignore them. If my mother has difficulty to persuade me, why should I be affected by some impolite posts? ^_^＜本文发表于: 相约加拿大:枫下论坛 www.rolia.net/f ＞