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It's understandable, but honestly, I feel sorry for him/her. Don't take me wrong - I am not pity on this person, I just feel sorry for him/her.
Personally I am not yet convinced by any religions, but somehow I do believe that nature got its own way to take care of things. For some people, no matter what they do, their lifes turn out to be simple and happy. For others, no matter what they do, their lifes always turn out to be more complicated than we could ever immagine.
STAY AWAY FROM THIS TYPE OF COMPLICATED ONES unless you are anxious to taste fire or ice. Life could be much more nutritious if you know how to stay simple.
The smartness always mislead smarties! I just happen to know a smart cookie no less than the case you mentioned, only more complicated even. She knows everything you want to say to her before you open your mouth, she wouldn't prove it to you she is right, but no matter what, you know she gonna do it on her own way --- put herself into fire and ice!
Of cause she is damned attractive, she's got guts to try anything you or I would never intent to touch. She might be just a fool! Most of her friends have called her so. I try to be as opening as I could be to view her actions and views. It is so hard not to love her because she never really gives up on herself. SHE IS ALIVE! The only thing she scares so far is to live like a walking corpse. I can't say it is wrong, but something seems to be just not right!
Don't get me wrong again - You shall know by now, lovers are not always ending up to be together, actually over 80% of lovers don't have good endings. Why? because they have been determined to do this test again and again until they really learn -- like a Chinese saying, when a carp is trying to jump out a dragon gate. ...
The only unexpected thing is that, many of innocent peoples would get involved finally at this circumstance, her feeling might not be so important after all, so???
It's not a personal thing anymore. I am really curious to know how she would handle this. Call me coward, I don't mind if so what I care the most would be stable....
Life is supposed to be nutritious, but when you see her, you see a war...
STAY AWAY FROM those COMPLICATED ONES not because you couldn't handle it, it is because you really don't have to handle it -- you could get better reward on other things......＜本文发表于: 相约加拿大:枫下论坛 www.rolia.net/f ＞