since u r always online and wanna talk together, why donot apply a private chat room for u. I think jabber will agree with u if u applied for one. By this way, u can talk with them and also surf the website. Right? If rolia still adds this function now, I can help them since this technology is not difficult to implement.
Moreover, I cheeked articles you post before. These r not bad at first, but now, they are not good enough. Make extra effort!