otherwise it's very possible that you two will regret in the future for not watching her growing up, which could bring you serious trouble in communication with her. (I've seen many such unhappy stories.)
As parents, you have to try to teach her to write Chinese at least once a week; and I think if you can afford it(of course you can if either of you have a job), you'd better get your daughter her own room---you can leave her alone after she falls into sleep, that's good for all of you. You can hire a babysitter when you want to go out, and I think daycare for full-time students should be cheaper than regular daycare centre.
the last word I want to say is that being parents is kind of sacrifice of personal lives, but once you decide to be parents, you should accept it and enjoy it, because she's your angel.