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You'd better follow your feelings. I bet you will not marry in many years. Finally you will calm down and marry a very plain person you would never think of when you young. But you will not feel sorry because you have too much experience before marriage.
I don't mean to hurt you. and I am not crazy to tell one's future. I tell this because I have seen the life of the girls quite like you.
BTW, I don't reject Chinese girl marry white man. The white, especially well educated ones, do have many good characters that our Chinese men do not have. But for the result, I agree with Wang-Ji_Ang. Most Chinese women will leave their white husband, not because their husband have new lover, but because the couple have some intrinsic difference in the idea of living. I would bring an small example to illustrate it: I met a lot of immigrant family. They have a very task, bring their parent (most of time the wife's parent) to some temporarily or permanently. Event if another half is not willing, he can understand and endure. But for a local white, it is incredible. If you pay attention to it, you will find a lot of problems like this: about childern, relative, friend, about how to expend money, many many. Only few couples can solve these problems to continue their marriage happyly to the old age.
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