I totally agree with you lumlum. No_pain_ no_gain theory applies to most of the areas but not with love,.hmnnnn.... hehe... tons of pain, but still no gain...
I did not trust " the first sight love " before cause I thought it was very skin-deep. Now mentally I totally ready to accept it but with different interpretation " want to make love at the first sight "
How come nobody is interested in this topic? Shy, or other reason? Haha,, ^_^