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I know these kind of condition. In fact the wife already doesn't love her hubby anymore, even didn't respect him. She regret for marrying him, but the sociaty or the tranditional concept made her hard to get rid of it. It is why she wanted to change her hubby into a brand-new person she love and it is why she never give up to change him. She worked hard for her dream lover!!!! No one like to face a person she dislike even disgust everyday. The kind of sadness is only from china. I am sympathic for her, she suffer as much as her hubby.
Chinese people don't know how to repect their own heart, for the rule of society they would like to give up their own wishs, but unconsiously they became angry or hate to the one who cause their regret. These condition became unreasonble if the one who has no enough wisdom to understand these anger or analyst themself.
In fact maybe after they seperate for a while, give her a period to think it over, the wife can know what she wanted or what she should do. Now she suffers a kind of mental problem.
At this respect I do agree the western people's concept, they follow their own heart although it makes a lot of trouble to their life(such as children problem after devoice, economic...). Chinese people is too practical.
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